What does it mean when a guy is talking to you at a bar, and offers to buy all of your friends drinks?

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This happens to me and three of my friends all the time no matter which one of us is originally talking to them.

BlackBeauty90 · Accepted Answer

Such men don't care about you or your friends & is trying his luck with any of you.

Such men see women as cheap dimbos to be bought - probably as they've had success with easy cheap women at bars who'd sleep with anyone that says hi - and thinks you & your friends are in the same category as those prior wannabe prostitutes.

The simplest solution is to STOP going to bars unless you are looking for cheap easy sex. Because maybe 0.5% people find a meaningful long-term relationship in a bar.

msmissydc · Accepted Answer

Actually a common situation with my friends. I think it can be a, b or c. B that he is just looking for anyone who accepts, seems to be the case most of the time. If we are a mixed group than C happens more often, which sadly is still the rarest in my experience. I had situation A when I am with my best friends out (lesbian couple). Guys somehow think I am bi or lesbian too and somehow even try harder and weirder. Which totally makes no sense at all, but guys...

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

He's a loser with no personality who leads with his wallet and thinks that by buying you a round he earns the right to your time all night and by getting you drunk enough you might become into him.

I guess I wouldn't turn down a drink if it's offered to me if I was you but be careful with guys like that they get mad easily if you turn them away after a drink

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He's saying "Come and get me, gold digging whore". Which ever girl in the group is most attracted to money, will be on his dick like white on rice.

pupluv45 · Answer

he can't get a woman so he is willing to buy you all a drink to see which one will sleep with him. he has nothing to offer in terms of personality so he has to do this. i wouldn't take this as a sign that he's a high quality guy. only desperate horny dudes would do something like this

AviatorTom · Answer

He's looking to take one of you home with him for a night of fun, and can't decide which one, so he's hoping one of you will help him decide with subtle or not-so-subtle hints.

Sisters_Of_Time · Answer

I've always thought that these guys want to buy us, get us through money or just wants to show off how much money he's got. Not an attractive move.

ShellyB · Answer

It happens to me also and I think it might be both A and B but I think a little more A so that is what I voted.

Guy13 · Answer

He thinks by the time you all finish those martinis that he will both look and sound better.

Reece12345 · Answer

Yep, he's attracted to you guys and he's honing in on a favorite.

AimeeKyle · Answer

A sign to move on / don’t go home with him…. and don’t let any of your friends go home with him either.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

He is trying to show off, or hoping to get more out of it. Became full to always keep your eye on a drink so it doesn't get spiked with something.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

It means he wants to fuck you snd possibly your friends to

loveslongnails · Answer

He's trying to impress you, and show you he can be a "big spender".

Anonymous · Answer

He is sucking up to you. Guys will do and say anything for sex.

LiamJHayden · Answer

He's trying to get laid and doesn't care which of you bites.

Titlover01 · Answer

It means he thinks he’s going to be able to sleep with you. And buying your friends drinks he thinks will help him seal the deal

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously he is trying to get laid with any or all of you.

spartan55 · Answer

It means he's an idiot.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

It means he's too boring...

chilldude33 · Answer

he probably just felt generous 🙂

Iron_Man · Answer

He wants to be with you

Tracker1958 · Answer

Doesn't matter which one he F.

ZenJen444 · Answer

It means he's just buying drinks

Cassie2002 · Answer

He’s seeing what bites.

Fuentes · Answer

Yes he's a huge simp

msc545 · Answer

Trying to be popular with all of you.

1cuteblackk · Answer

He’s just being generous I guess

SassyAussieAddy · Answer

He simpin

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Simp.

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