Is it mentally abusive to get off on degrading and belittling women?

Even with my relationship and previous relationships, I get off on gradually decreasing physical/verbal love and affection to the point where I no longer kiss/her or tell them I love her let alone have intercourse and the only way I end up getting off is if they're sat on a wooden chair naked and made to look at the floor not at me whilst I jerk off

Is it mentally abusive to get off on degrading and belittling women?
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