Why did he pull away?

[Ellgem]

When we met he asked me what i want, i said my options open and nithing serious. he said fine. we didn't fully have sex so the next day i was craving his body. It was so lovely , he kept telling me how beautiful i smell and he even told me that i look at him like i knew him from the past. That night was lovely he stayed for 2 more hours after we stopped kissing and we cuddled and talked. he sent me pictures when he was young by the way i got home. He kissed me so hard before he left. I said its better to not talk about how our days go by, to avoid getting attached. so he started not replying getting distant and pulling away. the next day told me we may meet again but not sure and he needs time not to hurry cause im hurt since i broke up recently. I dont get it why would he give me time to heal and not have sex with me since its just sex and we had fun? He kept on saying that he doesn't want something serious too. I ve never heard someone rejecting sex when he had fun because im hurt from my ex and while he doesn't want a relationsgip too..!

[SueShe]

You got to explain to me what "we didn't fully have sex" means. Did you have the beginning of sex and what does that imply? Where is the limit between the beginning or sex and having full sex.

I can understand that a person does not want to have sex because it involves a number of emotions. He probably did not want to be too hasty with a relationship and to get too much involved. That would make it more difficult to break up again.

Since you don't want anything serious, then sex should not be part of it and that is how he understood it. Rather than to hurt himself by getting too close, he prefers to keep a healthy distance with you.

[Guy13]

Too much emotion too quickly can freak us out. Give him Time until he reaches back out. It could be two weeks BUT usually by 7th day our brain in pants gets weary.

[Sevenpointfive]

i hope you don't sleep with this guy. he did nothing wrong. maybe you should look at your priorities more?

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him about it

[In_Trance]

Smh... bruh..