If he says I’m sure there’s plenty of guys interested in you out there. Does he think I’m a catch?

[Anonymous]

[Purpleronnie]

It would be impossible to tell for sure from my perspective but if a guy is generally honest then it’s fair to say that he is inferring you are a catch as you say. This can also be another way of saying that he isn’t Into you but sees you objectively as attractive

[Asker]

he said “your a pretty girl so I’m sure there’s plenty of guys out there interested” it’s like saying your pretty you’ll find another guy but im not the one?

[Purpleronnie]

Yeh your right it could mean that but don’t see it as a negative. How one guy sees you is not how all will. Don’t get me wrong if you feel rejected by that it can hurt if you thought more of him but you will likely find yourself letting a guy down gently at many points in your life so maybe just accept it wasn’t to be and let it go

[MrCommodore]

Possibly, but he may not be interested in you himself.

[Asker]

he said “your pretty there’s likely a lot of guys interested out there” it’s like saying your pretty you’ll find another guy but im not the one?

[MrCommodore]

Yeah it sounds like that, like there are plenty of other guys out there who will be interested, but not him.

[spartan55]

Maybe, him saying that is just sweet talk. Don't fall for it.

[Asker]

But we’re friends and co-workers and he won’t date me because he won’t shit where he eats but he said that so I mean he has nothing to gain by sweetening me up if he’s not dating me anyway.

[spartan55]

Lol... that's funny. If you think he wouldn't just have one off sex with you then you are dumb.

[Summeroflove]

Probably. Are you interested in him?

[Asker]

Yes he did say I was pretty and he’s sure plenty of guys out there would reciprocate my interest. I guess he’s just saying he’s not the one

[Summeroflove]

Honestly I don’t know if you’re into him I say be direct about it.

[Summeroflove]

There is a chance of rejection and that’s scary. Unless you already did say something and that was his response

[Summeroflove]

I say ask him out and see what happens

[AmeerX]

He does find you attractive

[Asker]

Yeah he said “your pretty there’s likely a lot of guys interested out there” it’s like saying your pretty you’ll find another guy but im not the one?

[AmeerX]

You could have asked him but what about you? Do you find me pretty (wink). And if he did he would have told you so. and if not he would have avoided answering. And you could have gotten your answer.

What do you want to do with him right now? You want him or you want someone else?
You want someone who loves you or someone who you love?

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily.

[Asker]

he said “your pretty there’s likely a lot of guys interested out there” it’s like saying your pretty you’ll find another guy but im not the one?

[Opinion Owner]

No, he's just speaking the facts as he sees it. There's a lot of women out there that draw attention. That doesn't necessarily make them catches. He's saying you draw the attention of alif guys is all.

[Opinion Owner]

a lot* not alif.