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We used to be friends he is gay so that’s how I know we’re just friends
He just turned on me on day telling his boss I had more feelings for him
I Would just book certain gym classes just so I can be one on one with Him
he used to be so nice to me make me feel nice tell me to stand up for myself
he used to text me and tell me that there is no one else booked into certain classes if I wanted to come down to the gym etc
im kind of hurt a lot over the whole thing
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Your problem was you had too many expectations from him. If you don't expect anything from someone, you won't be hurt when they don't have to meet any expectations. But if it helps any, even married people, or just in relationships, deal with the same kind of thing. I don't really call him a turncoat though. You were just of the wrong sexual persuasion is all. Time to move on.
But he is gay lol
And you aren't, right?
You are now officially crazy, still carrying on about this shit?
Called manipulation
This is what happens victims they question themselves
I don't get how you can be manipulated and 'led on' by a homosexual man. It makes no sense.
Manipulation or not he sure is a physcopath of a person
Okay, so what are you going to do about it?
What do u mean he turns on you
Just like shows his true Colors
Like we had a disagreement I told him my grandad was dying he said he didn’t need to know that stuff
Never said sorry didn’t show one ounce of humanity
Told me I made him uncomfortable
I wouldn't say that's showing his true colours especially if he is bot equipped to give u that level of support of a dead love one maybe somthing has happened in his life that makes him wig out over death or he feels you shouldn't have told him
He lost his dad years ago
But yeah friendship is over
I feel broken betrayed
All of those feelings
It hurts
I feel led on
He told his boss I’ve more feelings for him when I don’t …
So he told his boss somthing he might have thought was correct and clearly u know he is not able to deal with death yet still felt the need to vent to him about a dead love one why did u expect that to go well
I wasn’t venting I was telling him and any normal person would respond with I am so sorry to hear that I’ve had death in my family also but don’t stop someone from telling me
Yet he may have felt it was not somthing needed to say or again be traumatised over the subject of death meh either way might aswell move on dwelling on it won't help
It’s very painful to be honest
He was tracking me looking at what classes I was booking into without my knowledge so you can understand why im freaked out
No im honestly confused u say u felt led on but say he was gay so how did he lead u on
I suppose In a friend when you think someone is your friend and turns out they were just waiting for an opportunity to dump you
Thats not what happened tho you guys had a tiff and things where said that dont mean they led u on or was waiting to dump you by u saying that it implies they wanted this to happen which I doubt
Mmm his friend added me on instagram …
Not really to honest
He’s a fake
Watching me on the gym app makes me feel creeped out
So go to a new gym and block him at the moment it seems you are thinking about more then actually happening
Do you not think that’s creepy telling someone you’ve been watching them on the app cancel and book in and out of classes
Telling people about his personal problems with his roommate in the gym
I would need to know more about the first thing and the second means nothing u told him about a family member dying and thats much more personal then problems with roommate
He said he was looking at the gym app to see what classes I was booking into and to see if I would cancel if someone else booked in
But the thing is I don’t pay attention to who is in the class
And then he said I was cancelling just so I could be one on one with him
I think then he came to the conclusion I supposedly had feelings for him
Clearly he thought that beforehand and thats why he was looking
Clearly he is a physcopath no?
Watching what a member is doing?
Not if he thinks that member likes him and he has interacted with her before no that dont make him a psychopath it seems u are trying to seem him the worst because u guys had a falling out
No not at all never wanted a falling out whatsoever
He is gay the line is very clear on that front
Anyway his roommate now knows what a piece of shit he is
I never said u wanted it from the start just that now u have fallen out u are looking at ways to see him as worst than it is
Well he basically defamed me really telling people I have feelings for him
I was doing stuff just to be with him
If u think that's defaming then whatever again if it bothers u go to another gym I seem to enjoy talking about him rather then moving on
Have you ever been hurt?
Confused as to why someone acted the way they did when all you wanted to do was be friends?
When all you were was kind to them?
Yes I either spoke to them to work out why or moved on not entertained thoughts based in my head and not reality whilst assuming every action they did was spiteful
Not assuming anything
The gym boss told me all of those things nothing is in my head here
They told me he was looking at me on the app
They told me he thought I had more feelings for him
Nothing I’m saying here is coming from my thoughts
He wouldn’t even entertain the talk he walked off got in his car and drove off
So u got told by a guy everything then decided he was a psychopath and never your friend but have heard nothing directly from him
He was at the talk yes
And what did he say
He was there when all of this was being said
And he was the one that actually told me that he was following me on the app
He was following me on the app
You are going to need to explain from the start as its hard to get a actual baises on this story without knowing the whole thing
Oh god lol …
At first it seemed like he told u this then it seemed like u was told by someone else then it seems like it was said in a meeting with this much drama just move on clearly this is way too much hassle to be worrying about