Isn't this wrong?

[MadKez]

When I was at uni, there was a girl who had a boyfriend and used to hug guys and be touchy. My friend said her behaviour is innapropriate and makes her look bad, but if it was a guy doing it, it wouldn't make him look as bad because he's a man.

[AmeerX]

Girls are ideally meant for monogamy. They cannot really handle polyamory. Men are polygamous. They can handle being in a polygamous relationship.

Reason is Girls like someone protective. They will just keep jumping relationships if it was so.

While men don't do this if they have multiple women they typically don't take sides, they try to make things work.

The girl should keep her personal space protected because you see women popular among men are not seen in good light unfortunately

[lightbulb27]

I see it as fairly equal and it depends on the atmosphere and what the energy of that was. if it as compassion and empathy, it's maybe ok and that's who they are. some people are like that. Depends on the energy... that's how I see things now moreso... what's the emotion/energy.

In general, shouldn't don't do that.

[CindyRuns]

I'm a hugger, but, that's about it, I hug people... male and female.

That said, it's just a hug, not anything else !!!

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

The thing is, women are not as much vocal as men are. A lot of guys are really confused by the behaviour of girls that is over friendly. Just be vocal about what you feel and we will be on our way.

What your friend said is right. Correct. The other girl's behaviour is going to make a lot of guys confused.

[Mansearching]

There are some people who are touchy/feely like that, no matter male or female. It just how they are.

Some people hate to be touched. More uncomfortable. So they say there feeling out loud even if it makes others look bad.

If her boyfriend is fine with is girlfriend hugging others then its no elses business. Keep opinions to yourself.

[Reece12345]

I agree. My sister had a boyfriend who's best friend was like all over her. Putting his arm over her shoulders, pulling the seat out for her whenever she was going to sit down... too much

[Summeroflove]

It depends on her intent behind it. Guy or girl. It’s not wrong if it’s platonic

[AimeeKyle]

I think that is BS. Gender doesn’t make it right or wrong. If it’s inappropriate for one it is for all.

[MadKez]

There are double standards

[Anonymous]

If a guy was like that he'd be accused of sexual assault. If someone is doing something, male or female, that others are uncomfortable with, they need to say something instead of let them do it and then accuse them of something worse.

[Jerre]

Think it all depends on where she is touching him. I don’t see anything wrong with it. When I hug a girl, I tend to rub my hand across her breasts and most will feel my cock.

[Sparkie460]

Some people just like to hug. It doesn't matter if they were a guy or girl.

[Guardian45]

Well, if the touching was inappropriate and unbeknown to her SO, then it is is wrong.

[FunkyMonkee]

Your friend's full of shit!

[MadKez]

Why?

[FunkyMonkee]

There's NOTHING wrong with either sex hugging the other!!

[spartan55]

That's not true at all.

[Truth0225]

It’s wrong either way.

[PinkRose24]

Both would look bad

[MadKez]

My friend thinks women are worse in this

[DJB72]

It's a double standard. Not cool

[Jennz6]

Yes that’s wrong

[Jennz6]

It’s confusing for the guys

[CubaPirate]

Double standards hugging is cool 😎

[misogynistic_pig]

No.

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[MadKez]

How?