Met this guy was head over heels for him the first date but?

[Anonymous]

After a week talking to him he starts saying things I don’t really like and are uncomfortable with in which he knows I don’t like and I’m not about that. I’m very old fashioned and I like to take things slow as I told him and he said he liked that about me.

But he’s referring to me as hot and s€xy and how my jeans looked so good on me and that my a$$ looked so good and he doesn’t want me to loose weight because I look hot now.

I just feel so annoyed at him like I just want a guy who is genuine and likes me for me and I feel like I’m disappointed because I thought he was different.

I was looking forward to seeing him again but I feel he’s gunna be the type to feel me up and the rest the next time we meet and I just don’t want it.

Just I’ve had too many bad men in the past and I’m honestly done with that.

What are your thoughts?

[sunflower44]

It's good that he likes how you look but maybe you should just talk to him about how you feel,, sometimes the biggest problems come from lack of communication,, good luck 🤞

[Asker]

But he should know how I feel as I have talked to him about his stuff and he agreed with me but thanks

[boggboss]

That he only wants u for sex

[Asker]

But he told me he doesn’t sleep around and this is the first time he’s done this stuff with me I genuinely thought he wasn’t like that as when talking to him he doesn’t come across that and was saying to me that he will wait until I feel comfortable and then next thing I’m getting my a$$ looks good which annoys me lol

[Asker]

Like don’t get me wrong I’d we were dating after awhile together I would have no issues but not now

[boggboss]

Meh if he wasn't like that he wouldn't have said that simple

[Asker]

Maybe so could explain why he’s never been in a relationship but on dates with loads of girls..

[boggboss]

Because he acts like how he has and scares women away

[Asker]

He just told me he was very picky and that’s why he’s never been a relationship

[boggboss]

He also acted differently at the start

[boggboss]

So clearly he is capable of lying

[Asker]

Feckk my god the red flags