Some background. He and I were involved for over 7 years, we even got married in a religious marriage. During those 7 years despite medical scans showing my ovaries were messed up and it is on record the doctor informing me I was basically infertile, which I gave him access to patient portal where my medical records are kept to prove this, I still deep down wanted to have a family with him and I disclosed this so many times over the years, and never once did he ever tell me he did not want kids with me. I truly did not know I could fall pregnant, due to what the medical scans had shown and what the doctor had told me, so this pregnancy came as a huge surprise to me. I only found out when he ended things with me around the time I fell pregnant, that he hated me! Now 7 months into my pregnancy he sends me this text message. How do I move on from this and let him go and more importantly how do I explain to my baby girl when she is older why her dad isn't around?
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It's so damn confusing even when I found out i was pregnant, he still never said he never wanted the baby or that he never wanted to have kids with me! in fact at times he was asking to be kept updated about the baby, but now 7 months into the damn pregnancy and he says what he did in the text.
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All u can do is be a good parent to your daughter and remember what he said or how he feels as a remainder thatvthe love u 2 had was based on a fake idea
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