Boyfriend says he's using me when we get into a fight, what should I believe?

[Anonymous]

he said twice already that he uses me for sex when he is bored and doesn't take me that serious. he only says it when he's mad at me and his feelings are hurt.

[Soapwithsoap]

That is not a thing that a guy would ever say to his girlfriend (friends with benefits or similar is different). Something is very wrong there.

Can't imagine myself doing that to my girl no matter how drunk ir angry I am. And vice versa I'd leave her for hearing that.

[spartan55]

When people show you who they are, PAY ATTENTION. Doesn't matter if he says he didn't mean it, of course that's what he will say. And you believe it for some reason...

[Wise4myage]

What does your gut feeling tell you?

[Wise4myage]

If you feel he is using you, then why bother remaining in that relationship.