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Some women do the same, they see men like giant vibrators, who exist to satisfy them not as leaders of a godly relationship they (the women) should be good team mates to. Men are visual persons and therefore discern women by their eyes (see first their body). Wonmen are objects of their sexual desires, but that does not mean that they want to use women as things but co-equal partners.
Part of it comes from women. They wear clothes that make people look at specific parts of their bodies. So they want to be objectived a bit when wearing those clothes. Supermodels also want to be objectified because that's why people look. So society tells us that objectification of women is not always bad, and guys have trouble knowing when it is.
If the media didn't subject/objectify them, we wouldn't.
Trump is right about a lot of things in the media, he just spins it so that it sounds like it's ALL to blame, when really, it's just the people on the right and right wing media that does it
I don't I only care about money & the interest I should have for women I only have for dead green presidents on a paper. My life made me backwards but I'm still smashing through chick's but a relationship with a women in this point of my life? isn't worth it. I already got one kid to continue my family tree so I don't hate I just don't waste my time and energy. When money doesn't bother me or nagg me, while I'm chasing more.
Those are two different things, dumbass.
Those who hate women, do not "objectify," rather they dehumanise them. But those who objectify, tend to lust after women and covet their attention.
Yes this is just femcel troll
Women need to treat men with respect to earn their respect. Far too many women nowadays think men are only to serve their needs and their ego without ever asking what the guy wants.
Some men do this because some women are literally nothing other than that and that's all they try to offer so they're also doing it to themselves, as for hate, it comes from how they're treated by most women, as nothing more than an insect beneath their feet, of course men are gonna hate them if they treat them that way, same as if men did that to women
I don't hate women. I am guilty of objectifying them, though. Plenty of beautiful women out there, hard not to think about them sexually.
"Men, why do you objectify women? And where does your hate for women come from?"
do you have to "hate" someone to objectify them?
Pretty much yeah cuz if not they'd actually have some respect and not treat women like objects
can you not appreciate a person for their sexy physcial appearance but also love them for who they are personally at the same time? wouldn't that mean that objectification doesn't automatically come with hate?
I would say no. Like you can likes someone's appearance and also love/care about them. But that's not objectfying them then.
Objectifying someone means you see them as nothing more then a object to use
but isn't everyone an object as well as a person at the same time? so you can like someone for being the object that they are AND for the person that they are. loving one of these 2 qualities doesn't automatically mean that you don't love the other quality right?
We shouldn't be viewing anyone as a object. We are all people not objects
we are all physical objects in the physical world. and we all also are people with individual character. denying either thing is delusional.
Object
ˈɒbdʒɪkt, ˈɒbdʒɛkt/
1. a material thing that can be seen and touched.
2. a person or thing to which a specified action or feeling is directed.
we are objects and you can and should see people as objects in the right context.
cause if `the man of your dreams directs his romantic love at your wonderfull personality, you're the "object" of his romantic love :D still hate being objectified?
This doesn't appear to be aimed at me so I'mma sit here with my popcorn.
Umm, I don't and I don't have any hate towards women.
Damn that's one hell of a sexy picture. I wish technology would advance to the point to allow us to do that without harming the woman.
I would like a portable butt with me when I travel.
There's a difference between the two. I don't hate women. But I can say that if I say a woman is beautiful or hot, is that odjectifing?
If that's all you see them for is beauty then yes its objectifing
Talking in general.
Your ability to say no! We hate that! And you biatches should be forced to do what we want whenever we want it.
All humans objectify though. Just go watch magic Mike and get back to me. :)
Men do hate hearing no for a answer lol
And nah I'm not into magic Mike, those type of male bodies disgust me tbh
Thank the lord…(drops barbell)
if you are looking for a good book to read I'd highly recommend "The Coddling Of The American Mind". It will probably give you a thorough explanation of how society has changed for the worse and through psy-op has the victimizers play the victim 😁😁
I don't hate women.
I objectify both genders, most people simply don't matter. Empathy drains energy. It's much easier to ignore people their feelings and just do what you want. I keep my energy for people that matter to me.
I do not believe all men objectify women.. Sex is sex..
Ah don’t deny that women objectify one another.
Hate?
I’ve never felt anything but admiration.
But that’s not a news people are shallow…
And men are much more shallow than women.
So I understand where you are coming from.
I wonder how would they treat me if I was somebody else.
In truth, men should feel thankful to have any woman in the world. Woman has a higher weight in mating.
Women LOVE to be objectified. Women are sex objects. Thats why they dress like prostitutes even if they go to the gym or church.
We dress like that for comfort and fashion
no you dress like that to make us horny without our consent.
With all of this Woke training in schools. White people bad. Especially white males. This will make it hard to overcome any type of hatred among any humans!
Women objectify themselves. Blaming men will only make us dislike you more.
Definitely attacking mens gender by the way. Slso very feminists. Even if you deny it. You chose to frame your question towards blaming men entirely.
Look in this girls recent posts where most of them are objectifying women and promoting promiscuity
I could really care less if men don't like me 😂 and not blaming anyone just trying to understand why men are this way
I dislike the majority of women because of their bad morals.
I think you're confusing "men" with the men you know. If this is really a problem to you then you might want to re-examine the type of men talk to. I treat people with the respect they EARN. Be that man or woman.
Are you equating objectifying someone to hating them? I'm confused.
I'm asking two questions here but yes if someone is to the point of only seeing a person as a object they'd probably also have to hate them on some level to so they are related in that way
I am biologically programmed to desire women. This keeps the species growing. Get over it.
And you have to hate women and treat them like objects to do that?
No hate, and not always treat them like objects, mostly not but yeah, sometimes… and guess what some women like to be treated like objects at times, just listen to some of their fantasies and escapades.
They like being treated like that just to get attention from men. Bad attention is better then no attention at all. Also a lot of then have some sort of trauma. It isn't normal or healthy to want to be treated like a object
So many want their hair pulled just for starters. I don’t think they all suffer from trauma, especially the ones with rape fantasies which is appalling to me. Majority of women are subs and I think being objectified goes with the territory there. Some even seem to be empowered by being objectified which is another way of looking at it.
lol, what does "objectifying" women mean?
Treating them like an object and not a human being.
@annabananna That is a subjective definition. And extremely vague.
Meh I don’t think so.
@annabananna of course you don't. Thanks for proving it's another made-up nonsense term by feminists.
Huh? I didn’t make that up. It’s been a word for a long time and I gave you the definition. It also has nothing to do with feminism.
@annabananna you gave me words. None of those words translate to anything concrete - hence "subjective". If you can't explain what "treating women like an object" means, that's fine. But never use the term to describe behavior by a man.
You can objectify anyone including a man but since she is talking about females she is probably talking about how makes objectify females. I assume she means to sexually objectify a female. Example: Girl and guy gets together for dinner and he doesn’t want to get to know her as a person at all. He is only interested in sex and if she doesn’t want sex he gets pissed and treats her like crap.
@annabananna So like women who go on dates just for a free meal and then ghosts the guy afterward?
That would be an example of woman objectifying a man.
@annabananna so where does their hate for men come from?
That sound more like greed than hate. However, a woman could do that and hate men as well. I’d give the same answer why women hate men as I did for why some men hate women.
@annabananna oh, so it's "hate" when men objectify women, but not the other way around. Do you think maybe you and OP could say "hey some people are shitty" rather than the same old feminist bullsht?
I never said it’s hate when men objectify women.
I didn’t think that she meant all men but she could have said some men instead of men.
@annabananna OP did.
@annabananna proving my point that it's subjective and not a real term.
What subjective?
Objectify? Why don’t you think it’s a real term?
@annabananna Because it's subjective. You can not give me a definition of "objectify" without using the word "object" in it. It has no standard definition and is entirely up to the opinion of the person using the word.
Ok, I get what you mean. Maybe it’s a little subjective but I don’t think it’s THAT subjective. You can typically get the jist of what they’re talking about but I’m gonna shut up maybe apple will clarify what she means by objectify.
Why do you make this so personal? I mean fuck, you've been on this site for a grip! Why such an issue now?
a lot of the guys on this site disgusting. We all know this 😂 I'm just the one speaking up about it cuz I'm tired of yalls hate
Nah, you're making this more than it actually is. Actually in a sense you're objectifying (And I must use that word loosely) men!
Asking a simple why question to men to understand them better is not objectifying them or making it a bigger deal then what it is.
Men here are choosing to deflect and not answer this cuz they don't wanna admit the reasons why they are so hateful to women.
Simple? You went off the cuff and are now using men again as a deflect by their responses!
I'm asking men why they feel a certain way. That is not objectifying them since I'm taking into consideration their feelings/personal experiences.
You went deep though.. There are a lot of real men that hold women in the highest regard because they don't assume hate. Anyway I respect your change of wording.
Women do it to, just differentlly.
As for the hate part... As the saying goes... men dont know how to hate women until a woman shows them how
Don't agree with the premise of your question. A lot of what you are identifying as hate is simply indifference.
I think it's because boys and men are deeply insecure and in ways jealous or afraid of women especially now
Could you please share an example of a guy objectifying a girl and an example of a guy hating a girl?
We don't have to objectify women, they do it themselves
I think that comes down to women seeking attention. We will objectify ourselves just to get some attention even if it's bad
The way women dress has a lot to do with this. And some are just pervs, lol.
What's wrong with the way women dress?
Nothing, but lots of women dress very scantilly
So what
So that's why men objectify you, because you dress provocatively, what do you expect?
@Degenerate she expects to have her cake and eat it too. A common thread in women's mentality.
@PatriceONeal Exactly. They act like ignorant children yet expect no consequences for their actions.
Wone do the same thing to men.. Your question ignores the fact that they both do it, regardless of weather or not you choose to admit it.
That's cuz I'm specifically asking this question to men/about men. I'm already a woman myself and have my own opinions about why women do what they do
Women objectify and hate themselves. The internet is filled with examples of women objectifying themselves.
Not sure what this even means. Everyone always objectifies everyone all the time. How would one even make it through life otherwise?
Dress like this and we will stop
Women objectify themselves but they call it "body positivity "
4 boys? hopefully they have dad in their life.
It's not possible to objectify a human being unless you lack the ability to perceive the thoughts and feelings of others.
Women why do you treat men as a disposable commodity, where does your hate for men come from?
Awh men def are not disposable in any way
Realy so it was men first when the titanic sank... ohh nope it was women and children first. I also don't see women doing the dangerous work that keeps society running.
Women are literally the ones creating society by having kids. They don't need to do the "dangerous work" cuz they're already playing a big enough role. Men on the other hand have to find their role in society. Doesn't make them disposable tho since that's just their gender
Aren't you ladies always complaining about how you not just here to make babies. That is when your not murdering children in utero.
And no sweetie men build societies. Men make the roads, lay the pipes, run the wires, man the defenses, produce the food, purify the water, and handel all the logistics. You might make the children but your also not very good at raising them. Prisons are full of the offspring of single mothers
Same reason why women objectify men and where your hate come from
Haven't really noticed to much of that coming from women
Then i can say the same thing for men.
You really can't. It's pretty obvious that women have been objectifyed by men throughout all of history
Then it also obvious not been had been objectified through history. Maybe you're only thinking of one kind of objectification that is what women tend to experience what you don't realize that men are objectified differently. And just because they are objectify differently, that doesn't mean they aren't exactly objectified. Women likes men who are strong and willing to endanger themselves for the sake of the family, being a provider even if they have to enslave themselves and so on seeing them as if they are just some sort of a tool. Just like there are also many women today seeing men as if they are just an emotionless atm machine. So with that being said, your double standard is showing
Most women today run around screaming about how they don't need a man to pay for them so the atm thing is far off. It's very few gold digger type of women that are out there treating men that way.
And they tend also contradict what they say by calling men not are real men for contributing more than what they expected. And even if they are basically like "i don't need men" that's basically treating someone as if they are an obsolete device.
there is curret generation there are lots of men think same
the women is objectify but this is not true there are lots of who are respect women
I've been objectified as a handsome black man (especially by white chicks) for as long as I can remember, and objectfying women is boys being boys.
I never did. Am more of a gentleman and self confidence 😊
I only objectify Western women because they are the ones selling themselves and their bodies.
this sums it up pretty well 🤷♂️
We objectify women , not because we hate them , but because we LOVE THEM and it's a fact a woman's body has MUCH MORE aesthetics and charm than a man's body.. So... can't help it
Mens bodies are nice too tho but women see them more as a person and not just a body
Mens body isn't as aesthetic and appealing as a woman's body is
Also it is that men have VERY VERY high sex drive compared to the woman
Well, I guess some of that hate is coming from a reversed hate from girls
Cuz sex is all we are interested in
Well, some men do it, not sure why.
I don't
Do women not objectify men?
Not on the same level that men do
How do you know?
Is objetifying and hate is same?
Nah I'm asking for both
Duh, silly me, mixed up two questions
Hate is a strong word though I do dislike some traits
Never been taught any of these.
Lol. Most men are still dating women
Exactly why I don't get the hate
I’m saying most men aren’t what you describe
Women first need to stop self-objectifying.
Cause humans are animals and animals want to fuck
I have no hate or dislike of women
Good! :)
Women objectify themself so stop crying
Ima keep crying😭
I can wipe your tears with my dick if you want
Don't act like it doesn't turn you on
Awh such a nice offer
Oh yeah? You think so?
For sure lol
Stop lying
Don't worry it's thick enough to catch all your tears