Men, why do you objectify women? And where does your hate for women come from?

Question

Yes I know "not all men" are like this but a lot of y'all seem to have hate towards women/constantly are objectifying them.

I'm wondering like where does this hate actually come from/why do y'all do it? Is it just in mens nature to be like this, possibly taught through generations, do y'all have self hate that you push onto women? Like what exactly is the cause for this hate.

And also this not a attack on men, or me trying to be a feminist. Really just looking for the root cause of this to prevent raising the next generation of men in this way if it's possible. I have 4 sons and always worried about them turning into men like this

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

I don´t think it´s taught nor do I think it´s hate or at least not in all cases. I would say the issue is that many guys are natural aggressive towards each other because being aggressive is a guy´s way of signaling another guy: You can´t walk over me. I´m not a doormat. A guy that shows weak spots is more likely bullied and playing with by the others.
Guys objectify women because they turn their behavior that works with other guys towards women or they do so because they don´t have a healthy relationship to women.
I think what people to miss out is that I would say in principle a naked woman is enough to turn a guy on and give him an erection. I say in principle because the brain gets used to the sight over time and gets less turned on every time. But because modern society at least in the West heavily influenced by sexual aspects it´s tempting for guys to reduce a girl to her body especially in the summer when a lot of women wear less and many guys are driven crazy by that.
Like I know guys that go to the pool in the summer only in the early mornings because otherwise they´d be constantly turned on otherwise.
I think what you could do is mainly two things: 1. Help them find good relative rolemodels in their life they could follow and also ask for help if necessary. Because I would argue that most mentally healthy guys have either dads, uncles or other men they looked up to, hold them accountable and gave them rolemodel to follow. I personally respected by dad than my mum because I knew that messing with my father meant more trouble.
2. Help them understand a woman´s perspective on the world are and what she needs a man to do and understand. I don´t know about the US but I live in a world where I see a slight segregation between girls and many boys not because anyone orders things like that but because many guys have different hobbies than girls do. That way about 50% or even a minority guys grow up interacting with girls outside of school. That becomes a problem since guys then start to develop their picture of women and how guys are supposed to treat women from the online world, porn included.
Both aspects are equally important since they help to develop a guy´s character.

Mangospacho · Accepted Answer

From what I can tell, it’s a lot of people who are either single and no woman will give him the time of day for any variety of reasons or people who are fresh off of a divorce and are looking for anyone to vent to.

EmyyWolf · Accepted Answer

Because at the end of the day they don’t better themselves on their own.

They look at P-RN XXX,

They look at manosphere content,

They don’t have a father,

They turn to dating apps , where a minuscule amount of women reside.

Then they envy men who have put the work in and look like Superman, Thor, Brad Pitt.

But at the end of the day, they just DONT, BETTER, THEMSELVES.

I posted so many questions on this, and they’re collective behavior is the same;

”it’s modern women’s fault” ”it’s modern women’s fault” ”it’s modern women’s fault”. AND IT JUST DON’T END.

They sit-back, chug Cheetos, and expect women to spread their legs all the way open for them. 🤡

https://www.youtube.com/embed/L6Ec7SYo7_k

HERE ARE MY QUESTIONS, AND YOU CAN INSPECT THEIR RESPONSES

@apple1996 ttps://www.girlsaskguys.com/guys-behavior/q4979001-why-is-there-an-overload-of-simps

Why can’t men find women to date?

They know how nature works. They know that males of all species have to do SOMETHING to attract the female and impress the female. Yet they wanna b-ch and cry and blame and not take responsibility.

HAVE THEY LEARNED ABSOLUTELY NOTHING? 🤡

Their precious manosphere content, their envy, their precious XXX, is their destruction.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Society promotes it, and if their parents do not teach them otherwise then they are going to do as society teaches them. A huge percent of the time, boys like that grew up in households where their father did not respect their mother, and they were pretty much raised by other boys who say gross thing in their school locker rooms who come from similar situations. Ultimately, it comes down to parental failure.

VanillaSalt · Answer

“Men, why do you objectify women?”

“This is not an attack…”

I’ve come to the conclusion men and women see things differently. Your not attacking us while… attacking us. You don’t even see how rude your statement was.

But following my point men and women think differently. Why are there so many slutty women out there? Because they love sex just like men. What value do women bring to a man’s life? What uniquely do women bring? Sex and children. We can find companionship and support in friends and family. Happiness in ourselves. Why do men pursue women? It’s for sex and children. Sure we like other things like companionship but at the end of the day the only value women bring that can’t be gotten from other sources is sex and children.

Men are forced to be strong. We have to make good money and work hard to be accepted. If we’re not accepted we’re ostracized and depression usually takes our lives. Men arnt allowed to be weak because people won’t think well of us. I know we’re in a time of equality or whatever but men and women aren't equal. I’m sorry honey but the truth is if women stoped working for a week the USA would be inconvenienced but if men stopped working for a week people would die. The electric grid, doctors, construction workers, police/firefighters/EMS, military, trash, plumbers… men maintain these areas of society. Have you see what happens when the power goes out in cold winter or hot summer? Old people start dying and people get stranded.

We men have more on our plate then women and honestly you wanna be equal? It’s about fucking time you pulled your own weight in society. Because quite frankly maintaining society is a thankless job. Remember #killallmen? What do you think would happen if we posted #killallwomen? For the work we men do there’s no respect. We’re treated like shit and not allowed to be weak even for a moment.

https://youtu.be/nBTuS-9qEFw

There’s you some proof.

MrOracle · Answer

Have you SEEN the Instagram and TikTok accounts (not to mention the OnlyFans) accounts of WOMEN today? Are men holding guns to these women's heads to make them post pics of their tits and ass all day long... or are those women objectifying themselves, because they enjoy the attention they receive? I think we all know it's the latter.

Certainly not ALL women go so far out of their way to objectify themselves, but a LARGE percentage of women do. Proof of this abounds.

It's no secret that men and women are different, and that one of those differences is that men and women have VERY different reproductive strategies. Women seek the best single man to father her children and to protect and provide for her and her children, while men seek to impregnate as many women as possible to increase the likelihood that at least some of his children survive. These are VERY different solutions to the same problem, but they each match our different biological realities. Women can only get pregnant about once a year, while a man could potentially impregnate a different woman every single day of the year, if not more. Of COURSE we see sex and relationships differently - how could we not? And neither view is "right" or "wrong" - they're just different.

This does mean that single men are going to tend to be looking for sex anywhere they can find it, and THAT means that women can get male attention (and by extension, validation and favors/free labor) by enticing men with their bodies. I'd argue that this dynamic proves that it is WOMEN who are objectifying themselves (setting aside the small percentage who might be being forced to do so) in order to gain male attention, rather than men objectifying women. I could take an hour or two and pretty easily collect 1000 links of IG pages where girls are purposely posting their bodies in VERY revealing clothes and poses clearly to get male attention - and some female attention too - isn't that an example of women objectifying themselves? And if not, explain how it isn't?

Yes, of course there are guys who are assholes, who DO objectify women who clearly aren't seeking such attention, but those guys are very much the exception, not the rule - it's just far easier to remember those few guys than all of the other guys who walked right past you without incident.

There's always going to be a few bad apples - most of whom were raised poorly, often in a home without a father - but the vast majority of men aren't out hassling women. But, yes, they'll look when it's being blatantly shoved in their faces.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

"And also this not a attack on men"

Well its a loaded question that presupposes men are overwhelmingly guilty of hating / objectifying women. So yeah, it kinda comes off as an attack on men. Even the way you put "not all men" in quotes makes it seem like you want to distance yourself from this perfectly truthful statement. I don't know the exact ratio of mysoginistic men versus the rest of us, but I don't believe women-haters make up any sort of majority. The men I associate with are those who value women as equals (not the "same", but "equal"), and want only to look after their daughters, wives, mothers, sisters, female friends, and so on. I'd count myself among their ranks. I do have higher than average levels of empathy, so seeing a woman OR a man in distress makes me feel distressed too, and want to help them so their distress goes away. Perhaps the men who DO "hate women" (by whatever metric you define this characteristic) are among those who have lower overall levels of empathy, and so they may interpret a woman's distress as less important than their own self-serving needs?

But I can only speculate.

Certainly there are some men who have an added level of ambivalence that's proactively directed at women, on top of the aforementioned low empathy levels.

(Having low empathy doesn't automatically make a person "bad" -- it just shapes their perceptions into a worldview that deprioritises other people's internal experiences, and prioritises the 'self' above that of 'the others'.)

I imagine low empathy is more "nature", whereas actually hating women is more "nurture". Genetics don't make some boys hate girls, that comes from upbringing, formative experience, learned trauma, maladaptive responses to negative experiences with women, and so on.

Hate must be incubated and nurtured (in some twisted sense of the term, like watering the seeds of what will become a poisonous plant).

People don't just stumble into hatred by accident, it's the last stop on a psychological bus ride that passes many other stops along the way. But low empathy may simply be an underlying state that makes it easier for these men who feel "wronged" by women to go down that route towards hatred. I've had times where I've been wronged by women, but my naturally high empathy gave me the foresight to understand the end destination that bus ride leads towards. For example, my ex is Ukrainian, and even after she cheated on me and lied about it and then blocked me, I still reached out after her home country was invaded to check she and her family were keeping safe. I just deep down want people to be okay, and that extends towards women towards whom I could claim to have legitimate grievances. My empathy just overrules any theoretical resentment that might otherwise have fomented in a more apathetic psychological environment.

Makeushiver · Answer

Hmmm, could it be possible that your opinion might show through what I'm guessing you wanted to present as facts. Nonetheless I'll try to answer what I can- or at least give an opinion. First, though, drop the y'all as it is not a recognized contraction. I don't0 and suspect most men don't- objectify women. I can only speak for myself so caveat emptor. When I see an attractive woman I tend to notice, and often comment, of their beauty. I've done th9is more than 100 times and I have never gotten a reaction that was angry. I had a French woman tell me, "thank you, you're the first man I've met who knows how to compliment a woman, not with catcalls from a group where you could hide but individually, face to face. . that is the best compliment I've ever received". Now that is also an opinion and not fact but the fact that two opinions now exist make your statement impossible as a fact. Would you tell me what the object (as a noun) you perceive when using the verb objectify (as a verb)? It's a sincere request and would allow me to answer the question more accurately. I'm assuming it has a sexual connotation but I am unable to see any problem with that. When you see an attractive man, how doo you respond-not necessarily said but thought.
Though" hate" has differences in the intensity from individuals, I cannot ever remember hating a woman. I have been pissed off by something they've done, said, nor not done. I don't think I've ever thought that I hated women categorically as a gender. Even ultra-feminist women who felt no compunction about sharing their opinions with me. I've agreed with almost everything they've said. I'm glad you asked though because it required thought and the one thing I can think of that comes closest to objectifying women as a gender that is mostly done for and controlled by men. However it is presented I realize that the majority of women are not air brushed and do not wear stiletto heels but nothing else, when they indulge in what the porn industry portrays as sex. I've never used bt have heard men say something like "I need some pussy" which does sound like objectification. I've even heard a an that was supposedly the leader and occupied what may be the , most important office in the world. It never crossed my mind that because of that, he objectified women. I think that most of what he said while in office and probably his entire life is grossly stupid and doubt if he has the skills to manage a 7-11. His remarks were just more in a vast sea of stupidity. He has made so many remarks that are not just inconsiderate but make him a pariah to the human race. Even before it became politically correct to forsake grammar to try to remedy what seems to be a built in tendency to use the term man or he rather than woman or she. I don't think the thought behind it is wrong but it makes for awkward speaking & is the best example of what I believe you're I would be pissed off too if I were implicitly ignored by the language we use. I think it is especially true in the case of words that are pronouned without including me the saying. I'm well aware that I corrected your grammar at the start of my reply only to commit the same mistake later. When people choose a pronoun for something the English language has bult in patriarchal chauvinism as the pronoun for a much bantered about topic here, for the noun god. It would be especially galling since the earliest conception of god were what are called fertility symbols. Until monotheists took over the pronoun "he" is used for god. Archaeologists have found enough of them at sites around the world to make it pretty clear that the original fetishes- not stiletto heel fetishers but a fetish as the object of what was something that would more correctly be called magic rather than spiritual. I may have used the term magic in its original definition of assigning power to metaphors. Way off topic but Christianity was one of dozens of cults in that area of the world at that time. It was more successful because it used the former pagan holidays so that Chistmas was remembered because it had been celebrated long before christians, even before homosapiens since it was pretty scary I imagine when the days for shorter and shorten and eventually humans or earlier examples of upright bipeds kept enough records that the days started getting longer and eventually warmer which I'm guessing was quite a relief. The same logic is also true at Easter when it became possible to gather fruit/vegetables finally. Like statues called Venuses invoking the power of fertility which was pretty important. Christianity was among many mystery cults in are of Palestine. They were smart enough to pick a season/time that was already celebrated and just changed the name. If there is a legitimate force for patriarchy it's probably religion which got codified after the use of fertility objects. It's a thread that runs through most monotheistic cultures though not really in Islam surprisingly. The Quran is nothing but supportive insofar as treatment of women is concerned. That- and thousands of other opinions held by radical Islamists today appear nowhere in the Quran. The concept of Jihad was never mentioned as anything but an encouragement to spread monotheism from Gabriel to Mohammed, not violently. What does appear is injunctions to treat fellow monotheists as slightly ignorant brethren and the same people that are in bith new & old testament appear in the Quran though Mohammed is seen as the last of the prophets and the one who was on a first name basis with allah.
In a serendipitous bit of responding to your remarks I've re-thought a few things as a result of our chat -if you will accept my nod to familiarity in that sentence. Though what I'bve conccluded is also nothing more than an opinion if forced to I would admit that in this case I mean truth, not opinion. Fear is culprit that causes most of what you seem to angry about. Men do try to avoid anything that shatters their self-esteem. We do not even get the benefit of oxytocin flooding our CNS as it seems to happen to women during childbirth as an apology for having to endure the pain of childbirth and to encourage bonding with the source of that pain. Oxytocin is probably the reason we are here today as without the warm fuzzies that the chemical provides women could understandably say, "I'll pass" when confronted with the responsibilities of pregnancy, childbirth and child rearing. It seems like men have no interest in avoiding conception and responsibility, usually because of "it feels better" trumps any or the burden of buying a condom, hanging around to share the responsibilities of "it feels better" but men fall short in many important categories. God forbid the possibility of not being first in line for a promotion and an increase in salary. Since the amount of money someone who doesn't know you but pays you is the god that men tend to worship and no one pays you for helping to raise a child or even conceiving a child the only tangible benefit to it all seems to be "it feels better". If women would share the oxytocin high maybe we could get with the program.
I apologize for having strayed so far off topic but again, thinking about this did evoke some small revelations. Without the oxytocin high we live with fear. The act of getting fired, demoted or anything that stands in the way of avoiding fear with money is around the same level of hurt that a woman we are very attracted to rejects us. Both of those rejections are far too close to something an MBA can't help. I don't think lust is any greater in men than women though acting on it may be. "No" in any form is something people in general hate. When your self-esteem is derived from the size of your paycheck or your dick the more you can objectify helps anyone to the extent that that process gives us an illusory but more comfortable way of thinking we can control it. The closest thing I've found to understand that are the tenets of buddhism which are this, attachment is the worst sin of buddhism. When we think we won't survive unless we get something or if we lose something we already have we get set up for unhappiness. Nirvana comes from freedon of attachment. Buddhist monks in many afreas are mendicants, surviving on alms alone. Despite that many monks are not allowed to save what is leftover food (rice is pretty universal as a synonym for food). Trying to save anything 401(k), money off coupons and rice that one is tempted to hold onto is forbidden because the implication that I'm afraid of not getting provided enough to eat and as such is a terrible lack of faith the benevolence of the universe. Please note, the fact that I know this and agree with it I am far, far away from forgoing attachment. If you want to get punched do this. When someone says that they are enjoying a relationship with "unconditional love" ask them if they would support the person they are unconditionally in love with. Too long

dynamicyandere · Answer

I appreciate you adding the disclaimer, not all men.

I do not hate women, but I’ve seen content around on the internet that perpetuate misogynistic views and ideas.

You’ll see content like that under keywords like: red pill, mgtow, incel, black pill, etc.

Out of curiosity I’ve viewed some of this content to see what the commotion was about.

And the general theme seems to be men who have experienced mistreatment, trauma, or rejection from women.

And, instead of viewing things on a case-by-case basis, they’ve generalized all women.

Women are this. Women are that. This is why you should never trust a women. Etc.

There’s a serious distrust of women pervading all these online communities.

And without trust, there cannot be love or meaningful relationships.

And if meaningful relationships are off the table, what do you have left?

MeaningLESS “relationships” with women.

Women then get reduced to nothing more than an object of hate or amusement.

If you want your sons to grow up without these misogynistic views and ideologies, I think it’s important to introduce them to good male role models, that they respect, who do not share these views.

And they should be wary of misogynistic content online.

And they need clear examples in their life of GOOD women who do NOT mistreat them. Who have morals, integrity, character, and are examples of what a woman should be.

Otherwise, they may be swallowed up by these harmful ideologies that are so easily found online.

They need to learn how to critically think and be conscious consumers and not be so quick to adopt other philosophies without careful consideration.

Hanrej · Answer

If you're wondering how to raise boys to men who don't hate women you should teach your boys to work hard for what they want and to place their own happiness first.

Most men who hate women are bitter, have had experiences where they were mistreated, missled or simply lost to women due in no small part by social norms. Such examples could be divorce or simply growing up having to experience their fathers misery after a divorce. Add to that social work that is done under the pretence of equality that serves to take away fruits of mens labour to give women easier lives.

I don't think I can even begin to explain to a woman what it means to be a man... But imagine having no power while told that everything that is wrong in a society is somehow your fault, add to that that everyone expects you to fix all the problems in a very practical way and also that you should do it without taking any credit for it. Then Imagine if you will that social conventions dictate that you treat every other gender with respect no matter what they think about you, say about you or how they treat you. That you, as a man, owe them respect. Owe it to them to treat them well. Owe it to them to work yourself to an early grave (statistically speaking) and be greatful for the opportunity to waste your life in service to people who does nothing but think ill of you and who have proven time and time again that they will not be there for you.

Then you may have an idea as to why.

Finchie40 · Answer

It mainly comes from being let down or lied to , backstabbed, betrayed , hearing stories of what a girl did to her husband or boyfriend behind his back etc. The same goes for most Girl’s about men , Like I always say, I feel social media played a big part on how men and women stereotype each other and make them assume certain things Every Girl cheats , every guy cheats , If they are doing this it means they are doing that etc Most people are Glued to their phones and get drawn into all the nonsense and gossip they see or hear about on social media , it seems everyone knows everyone else’s business these days and assume the worst case scenario , if I am feelin distance from. A girl and she is treating me differently There are times I will jump on social media and see memes that sometimes make me question on whether she is being up to no good or not , and sadly you start to think well if this is something other men are experiencing what is different from from what I am experiencing , so the reason most guys think like they do and girls think like they do is because thy assume things from all the horror stories on how a guy o girl can’t stay faithful that no matter what, thei is. Possibility they will cheat on you , I been seeing a Meme pop up that says All girls cheat , and if she really likes you , you won’t know that she did , Shit like this an fuck with someone’s head and makes people think what if their partner is doing that to them. It’s a sad world we live in these days ,

RealMarek · Answer

There are a number of reasons:

Porn, which is highly addictive for many men and can warp their sexuality.

The rise in non-monogamous sex, which leads to many young women sleeping with a select top-tier of young men. This has pushed the percentage of young men with no intimate relationship to record highs, and believe me this can cause all sorts of problems including resentment against women.

Divorce laws that are often unfair to men, in some states more than others.

A reaction against the feminization of culture and education, and even the family (due to the number of absentee fathers or fathers who get minimal custody).

A lot of these are side effects of the insane social and economic agendas of our corrupt elites (clear them out!), which aim to reduce people to highly managed consumers and wage slaves in order to concentrate wealth and power to the elite. In the bigger picture, problems tend to crop up during the late decline of a culture with the effect of reducing fertility and familial bonds, and the West is in terminal decline. Also, do not take these reasons as excuses for extreme negativity among men. And I also know it is not easy to be a woman these days, although their problems tend to differ. As someone who got taken to the cleaners by an abusive woman during a divorce, I can say bitterness does no good for anyone, no matter how unfair some things can be.

inhua · Answer

if you truly cared about your 4 sons, you'd stop trying to control and restrict them.

let them be boys and do what they naturally do. if they want to play rough sports like football and boxing... let them do it. if they want go hunting and fishing... let them do it. if they want to follow certain male role models... let them do it. don't force them to think a certain way. if you have alternative male role models like their dad, then show them. if he's not in their life, it begs the question why are you keeping the dad away from them?

and also tell them the truth of their reality of becoming a man (that should the dad's job to do) tell them they need to provide some value to society, be competent, have a good impression etc. good personality alone won't them anywhere in life. doesn't matter how nice and sweet they are if they become 40 years old and still playing video games in your basement. also don't even try with the LBGTQ "oh you're really just a girl trapped in a boy's body" nonsense

if you're worried about them "objectifying" and "hating" women, trying to control and restrict them is a surefire way for that to happen.

fact of the matter is, men don't need to objectify women if women are objectifying themselves. porn is free and accessible these days. social media is full of soft porn. girls these days are walking the streets showing off as much skin as possible and all you want to do is suppress your sons' thoughts and sexuality. wrong move. be mad at the culture. not them.

Sixgunsound · Answer

Several reasons, though I am not sure the answers will be comfortable or accepted. To begin with, men will rise to the standards women set. If women make only fans pages for example, men are not going to respect or wife that person. They may take what she's willing to give while the getting is good, but when she makes herself an object they will take her word for what value she feels she has to offer the world. Women who embrace the ideology and worldview that produced songs like wet a$$ P are showing men how they want to be treated. It is not men's fault that these women and those who follow that ideology and worldview are willing to sell themselves so cheaply. The number of boys whose mothers cashed in on the divorce rape system and Deprived their sons of a make role model that was good enough for her at the time to reproduce with is simply staggering. And before anyone says what about deceased or never married I'm talking about a specific issue here. As a survivor of financially motivated divorce rape as a child, I can tell you that having a father around would have made a significant difference while I was a boy. My mother chose my father's money over her children, which led me to have to figure out a lot in life that children of intact families tend to already know by the time they move out. Some men are just self-centered assholes too, I'm not trying to say that doesn't exist. But is is biased and foolish in the extreme to fail to account for the role modern women play in their own suffering.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Well, I don't hate women, lol.

All I do is point out the BS double standards that's benefit women that some women don't seem to mind, but have no problem complaining about when it benefits then.

In real life, I never really experience this and enjoy female company.

The women on here that talk about 'male' and 'female' nature, only care about aspects that benefit them 'it's female nature to be desired', according to a 75 year old 'dating coach' who decided not to have kid's, which is so common in nature, talks about how a woman's body count doesn't even matter.

Men can't have standards without being shamed for it, like you've got a whole fucking movement or campaign for women not shaving their body hair, being a land whale or talking about how her body count 'doesn't matter' - it's ridiculous and if a man or woman points it out on social media, they get censored.

I will continue to point out the double standards until some women on here, regardless of how hateful it may come across actknowledge them, instead of being female excuse generators in the name of 'us women have to stick together', which is all it means from a lot of women here.

In terms of objectifying women, guys often like sex, so why wouldn't you think about it or get horny over it, like if women can be bitchy because it's that time of month, then why do men get shamed for being horny when it's also a hormonal thing and if women 'mature faster', then there's really no excuse for it and yet the above exists - I'm not justifying rape, those bastards deserve to die, but willingly spreading your legs for a guy and then crying that he raped you isn't rape and is a slap in the face to actual victims.

Isaack · Answer

Everyone goes through an awkward teenager phase where hormones flood their brain and make them want things that they didn't want before. Boys usually go from not caring about girls at all to suddenly having a biologically driven urge to have sex with them. Boys often resent that shift in their brain chemistry, and since they don't know who else to blame for what's happening to them, they sometimes put that resentment on the object of their sudden attraction. Hopefully, as the boy grows into a man, he learns to deal with his urges, and finally realizes that girls are people just like him, and not some other creature to be avoided, nor an object that controls his sexual gratification. Unfortunately, money and power will often allow some people the opportunity to avoid growing up and instead force their pubecent will on those around them. I think the best way to help boys grow up and not just stew in that resentment is simply to make sure they spend time with girls their age doing shared activities. The sexual tension will be there and potentially dangerous, but they'll also have time to normalize interacting with girls and demystify their identities.

SpokenTruth · Answer

You can accuse men of objectifying women for men's attraction all you want and you'll never change a thing. Rather you see men naturally attracting to beauty as objectification or not men are and so are boys and there was a time when women went out of their way to look beautiful too. The problem isn't men and never has been or boys either.

The problem is feminist and feminism the damage feminism has done to society. Men never changed women did and expected men would women decided to. And yes men have changed alright but not the change feminist were expecting nor in a positive way. Men have not changed men have reacted to women and women don't like the reaction. Men never wanted to change women did and did within the last 50 years.

Everything was fine and everybody was happy for the most part up until about 50 years ago. It's not men that took everything away from men it's women that have taken away from men though the evil of feminism.

Accusing men of objectification for attracting to someone a women is born with such as her beauty something that's a natural part of her is insanity and it's not men that are doing the objectification it's women because men were not born with things attached such as possessions status jobs wealth houses cars or fame but those are the things women are attracted to in order to accept men. And that's real true objectification.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Objectification and hate are two different things. As a matter of fact, objectification isn't even related to hate. Objectification is more closely related to misogyny.

As for your sons, I hate to break it to you, but the fact is that they are probably all going to objectify women at some point during their lives (and especially during puberty and their teen years). Why? Because it's part of their biology. Men were naturally designed to be physically attracted to women's bodies. (And I mean VERY physically attracted!) You can't change that; and frankly, I don't think you should try. Just let them be men. Because that is what they are.
However, as their mother (parent), you CAN corral it. You can guide them and teach them the ways of manners and morals and respect. (That is what my mother did for me. I'm not perfect, but at least I can say that I hold myself to a high standard of conduct and always strive to behave appropriately when dealing with members of the opposite gender.)

Kai95 · Answer

The thing is we don’t actually objectify women, women objectify women, and I started noticing this when i was 16, no guy is going to go up on a girl and tell she’s dressed like shit, has bad make up etc but women with loudly say to another women or worse to other people behind their back.
On the hate part I don’t agree, that men hate women, what most men hate in woman is how easy it is for them to get better salaries, opportunities, and a lot of other special privileges just because they’re women, i’ve seen women promoted and men being overlooked while productivity isn’t even looked at, had a female colleague she’d 1/10th of the work everyone does, including other females (just not as good looking or as good as her at ass licking) yet she got promoted before the others because the manager ‘liked’ her ideas. A lot of the world is starting to have these ‘gender quotas’ and it is just unfair, this isn’t the 60’s era most women can do what men do and that is a fact but these gender quota are discriminatory to both women and men.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s a combination of a lot of things. I think it’s part of human nature as far as why men look at women. Even in the animal kingdom males do the same as far as going after the females. I was raised to be nice, to treat women w respect, to protect them. But over time especially w this generation of women I’m like fuck it take care of yourself. You don’t know whether opening the door for a female is going to get a thank you or a fuck you I can do it myself. Women w the attitude I don’t need a man. Realizing society treats women a lot better in many areas of life like prison sentences. Battered women’s shelters, etc, etc. No testicular cancer month for men but society runs around in pink to save women’s tits. Women want equality only when it benefits them. I work in the medical field. Always getting called to deal w a hostile patient because I’m a man but I don’t get paid more. I should if you’re going to put me in danger so the female can walk off to not have to deal w it. Telling me not to look at women sexually is like me telling you to stop using your feelings. Not going to happen. Especially when every other post is some girl w her tits and ass hanging out. Women don’t want to be specialized according to them but do it to theirselves especially when they want something from a man. Nowadays I tell women to do it their self, it’s 2023 you make as much as me or more so do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Those are two separate and unrelated questions, so I will address them separately.

Why do men objectify women? Well, you're going to have to explain what you men by "objectify". Do you mean viewing women in a sexual way? That's just human nature. Not much we can do about that. But a big part of the problem today is that women sexualize themselves constantly. Ever watched the Grammys or Academy awards? Ever watched most female performers today? Spend any time on Instagram? Have you seen what teenage girls wear to school? Women sexualize themselves constantly, and then complain that they are sexualized.

Why do some men hate women? Because the only gender movement that has any mainstream credibility is feminism, and feminism has been treating men like shit for years. Whether you call yourself a feminist or not, feminism speaks for you. If you want to do something about all the gender hate today, go to the source and use your voice as a woman to do something about it. Men have no voice in the matter because any time they speak out about it they are just called incels. Feminism has created this problem, and there are precious few women honest enough to acknowledge that, let alone try to do anything about it. That's why men are angry at women.

Good women are honest about the problem and are not complacent about it, so it's clear there are not many good women around these days. Be better women.

Hope that helps.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

This is just a weird question. I don't hate women. Many guys here do. But that's only because they lack access to sex.

As for me, I guess I am guilty of objectifying women. I don't apologize for that. I love women's bodies. I love talking to them. I love flirting with them.

If that makes you mad, then I am not sure what to say.

Good luck with your thread.

syncheart · Answer

I think if a man feels like He dislikes women, it comes from how He's been treated by women. You got to remember that not all women are kind people. If a man happens to be around a lot of unkind women, it is only natural He's going to start feeling bitter. The women in my life, ignore me. And I always haft to be very careful when I talk to them. Also women tend to ghost me a lot. After years and years of this, my confidence has gone down. Do I hate women? No but they have managed to change me into someone that fears them.

lightbulb27 · Answer

seems part of our little brain involved in mating, maybe it's testosterone. I don't recall doing this before puberty. After at some point, I started to notice "parts" or components and make analogies.

why do women make themselves into objects so they can be objectified?

I don't believe all men do this, Muslim culture learned to cover the woman head to toe in black so they don't have this problem so much.

I've never seen a culture where men put blinders on. Next best thing might be Jewish or some Jewish, where they woman is out of sight.

Men, why do you objectify women? And where does your hate for women come from?

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