Why doesn't my partner support me at all?

[Jlust255]

Like he says he supports me but shows no enthusiasm or action that he does. He literally doesn't encourage me, only to the bare minimum. ATM I'm in danger of getting my car repossessed & I feel he would rather have my car possessed than me actually have it. I even over heard him talking to my family how he thinks my dad should help my brith and out with a car over me because he thinks I'm spoiled & gets everything handed to me.

But it's because his attitude towards me that I'm not accomplishing anything in life right now. Like who wants a partner that doesn't want to support them or see them happy? & I just don't understand why I'm tolerating any of this :(

[Anonymous]

Regardless of his support or lack thereof, stop using him as an excuse that you’re not accomplishing things in your life because of him. It sucks sure but that falls on you. While I can I’d rest and what you’re trying to say you ultimately make that decision to stay w him or not. What happened to strong, independent women? It’s always a man’s fault when things go wrong when it comes to women ow ing up to things. Stop whining, make a move. If you know you don’t deserve this then kick his ass to the curb.

[elew4too]

Sounds like he’s not the empathetic type. He’s all about that tough love it seems. You don’t seem to appreciate his rough mindset and brutal logic though; so you have to ask yourself if you’re willing to struggle and cope with his tendencies, or if you want to walk away from this man entirely. It’s all on you and your tolerance/adaptability

[DopeTurtle]

Is this the same boyfriend you had in your previous questions? Then I highly recommend just distancing yourself from him if he’s a huge headache and not what you value in a partner.


If not then I suggest having a discussion about it in a further detail to get to the root of his opinion. Only you can get the answers than us