He said he needs courage to leave his wife cause he is afraid she will hurt herself but say he loves me and only for me he is still alive. Why?

[Deimy]

[Crankor]

Anyone who makes reference to only being alive for someone is very unstable. in my opinion that's a red flag. If a person isn't capable living for themselves then it's hard to imagine them having healthy lasting relationship of any sort

[coachTanthony]

He just needs to keep the status quo. Be with you on the side and be married to his real woman. Run and run fast from this guy.

[fantasticass]

Why would he leave his wife? He has no reason to. He's feeding you lies and bullshit. Don't share a man with another woman. Go get your own man, there are plenty to choose from ✌️🇨🇦

[Anonymous]

Ugh there’s nothing wrong with being a side piece but this is just 🤢 he doesn’t want to leave his wife or he would have, he wants his normal life with extra sex lol

[Opinion Owner]

Think about it if he didn’t leave his wife before he met you he has even less reason to leave now he gets his sexual needs taken care of.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m also a side piece we give each other comfort and sex because our spouses are abusive but it is what it is neither of us are looking for more yes we love each other like friends that have sex but we don’t lie we respect each other’s normal life comes first. If that’s not for you I don’t know what you’re doing to yourself

[AviatorTom]

Let me guess. You regularly have sex with him, at a time and place on his terms, and you rarely do things together in public. You are his mistress, nothing more, and he's telling you, with wild stories, that he wants to keep it that way.

If you're okay with being the mistress, keep the status quo. If you're not, forget about him and find someone who respects you.

[SnowedIn]

He's not going to leave his wife. They never do.

[Mmmariaxc]

Yes and on the tiny chance that he leaves he will cheat on her too

[SnowedIn]

@Mmmariaxc... That's a GREAT point!

[Mmmariaxc]

The only one I knew who left is because the side chick said she would tell the wife everything but yes he kept cheating with the new girl too.

[SnowedIn]

My dad left my mom for the realtor who sold us our house. 😥

[Mmmariaxc]

I’m sorry about that 😔

[SnowedIn]

Thank you. Apologies... wasn't angling for sympathy just underlining your point.

[catiecatie]

Girl don’t go often a married man or recently divorced man. It won’t end good for either party.

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter what her days. It only matters what he does. You aren't a priority. Find a man who puts you first.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like some BS he's telling you to be able to keep both of you. You're the side chick. Move on.

[exitseven]

Married guys always say that. He will never leave his wife. He will lose everything in the divorce.

[Makeushiver]

Her saying that is controlling and reveals a deep insecurity. Anyone completely dependent on someone else to make them whole need to rethink. It pretty much guarantees him limited movement. Would there be a problem in just having him on the side?

[msc545]

You might want to find someone who is slightly less prone to dramatic hyperbole.

[TallAnon]

That sounds like a whole load of manipulation, red flags all over.

[OddBeMe]

Stats overwhelming say he won’t leave his family. He’s currently having his cake (you) and eating it too (nice family life at home).

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because he will blame himself if his wife will harm herself after he leaves.

[Mmmariaxc]

No because if he cared about her mental state he wouldn’t be cheating would he lol

[Ms_Facesitter]

@Mmmariaxc Unless it's an abusive partner. They blame themselves for their partner flaws although they Know the relationship isn't good for them.

[Chelsdope0]

Don’t be stupid.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Sounds like he's trying to manipulate you. Run.

[sunflower00]

Why are you speaking to a married man

[smashleyy]

oh babe…

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Because you're a fool.

[Anonymous]

Don’t be a home wrecker, leave

[jimmy2]

You don't need to do that

[Fuentes]

Sounds like a game