If he really loves me, why doesn't he leave his wife for me?

[Anonymous]

I just found out he’s married. I told him we were either going to break up or leave your wife. He told me that he loved me very much but that it was impossible for him to leave his wife. If he loves me, why doesn't he leave his wife?

[AviatorTom]

Let me guess... you have great sex together. Why would he give up his wife... and maybe kids... when you are always willing to get him off?

Time to move on... eay goodbye to him and find a single guy, the kind you deserve.

[Asker]

Yes our sex life and everything is great. But he doesn't just have sex with me, he chats with me, we laugh together. I don't know if that means he loves me or something.

[mobiusforniner]

Because love isn't about want. People often confuse this. Love is selfless. He has a commitment to his wife and kids. If he loves them, he would not leave them.

And likewise, if he truly loves you, he knows its better to leave you than to continue a relationship where you only receive the leftovers of love given to someone else. Because he knows you deserve more.

If he keeps you in this relationship dynamic, id agree he doesn't love you. He loves what he wants from you.

[MementoMori777]

thats not love, that man doesn't love either one of you, if he did he wouldn't be deceiving his wife and he wouldn't be carrying you on, him being a cheater shouldve had you running tbh

[Asker]

you are right

[MementoMori777]

best of luck

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Are you serious? The guy is ish for doing his wife dirty but you actually desiring him to leave his wife for you is extremely low on your part.

[Asker]

If he is faithful to his wife, then why is he sleeping with another woman?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You shouldn't be dealing with him to begin with knowing he has a wife at home.

[Asker]

I will leave him but my heart is broken anyway

[Jo-hello]

He is not faithful to his wife and is using you.. I’m sure it hurts.. but you do not want a man who you cannot trust. Break all contact, grieve, and grow from this experience.

[Jo-hello]

The question you should ask yourself.. dk I want to be with someone who cheated on his wife, broke promises to her, lies to you both, and has no integrity? Love yourself and find a better man.

[LostandFound__x]

He doesn’t love you.

[Asker]

Where do you know?

[LostandFound__x]

Because he’s married and he wants to stay married to her. If he loved you he would be married to you.

Sorry I know it sounds harsh but it’s very simple and I want to be honest with you.

[Asker]

if he loved his wife he wouldn't cheat, I think he doesn't love either of us

[LostandFound__x]

I think cheaters are selfish anyways

[Unit1]

More pussy.

[Jo-hello]

He will end up being a miserable old lonely man when his wife leaves him and his kids don’t respect him anymore, and then he realizes he is a piece of Sh.. t.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Asker]

Get out