If a man divorced his wife to be with me, is that because he loves me?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I were off and on for 2 years before he met his now ex wife. We were off and on because of moving away, moving back, outside things but we had really passionate and intense moments together. It lasted for 2 years before I distanced myself from him and unfollowed him everywhere. He kept checking up on me the year we spent apart. I had no idea but he married a girl during this time. After a year of not speaking with him, I reached out to him saying I missed him and wanted to see him again, and he mirrored my words. I had no idea but within a week he asked his wife for a divorce and it wasn’t until they were through the divorce process he told me he was married. They officially got divorced and he’s right on me wanting to see me, like he moved out this week and he’s already asking to see me. What do you make of this? I swear I had no idea he was married because I wasn’t following him on social media and his accounts were private. Did I cause the divorce?

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't think you caused the divorce, most likely things were not good between the two of them prior to you arriving on the scene.

The only concern I would have with that scenario if I were in your shoes is, would/could he do the same thing to me someday.

[LuminousMind]

Hi, I just wanted to say I really like your advice and I wanted to ask if you wouldn’t mind giving me your opinion on a situation? @OfMiceandMen I’d appreciate if you could follow me so I could send a pm

[OfMiceandMen]

@LuminousMind Thanks, for the kind words and by all means send me a pm and I will see what I can do.

[jahaims]

Nah, it is because he is weak and can't handle responsibility. So he lies to himself and runs to someone else.

[Jay-_-]

Answering only the question, no you're delusional, I didn't read the paragraph.

[Lara_Croft]

PSYCHO