Women having affairs with married men often nag at the guy to leave his wife, only for him to find all kinds of excuses that the timing is wrong. Why doesn't the woman tell his wife for him, and then the nagging would be over (as the wife would definitely divorce him once she was aware of the affair)?
That actually has happened where the 'mistress' told the guy's wife but his wife still wouldn't leave him. The guy knows he has all the control in these kinds of situations. Why? Because a lot of women have a messed up mentality of finding married men attractive or more desirable, so he knows that's what's going to keep the mistress pulled in. And his wife won't leave because she'll either go through a long stage of denial while suppressing her heartache, or she will literally believe he will change and stop seeing the mistress. And even if he does, he'll just move on to another one.
I am pretty sure most guys would not appreciate their mistress dropping that bomb on the wife. His reaction isn’t very likely to be what you described. The odds are that he would stop seeing the side girl and try to work it out with his wife. There’s also no guarantee the wife will leave
Just a thought, but maybe the other woman would be better off finding a man that isn’t married?
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Descent chance the wife will win. 90% of divorces are indicated by women so the other woman has to be sure the wife will want a divorce.
Otherwise she is initiating an ultimatum she is likely to lose. And, again it's not about who the guy likes most. Men are either programmed as leavers or state's. The leavers all left for a pack cigarettes long ago and never came back.
So the married men you know are pretty much all stayers. You only get him if the wife is willing to give him up.
Some do.
Not that I support cheating in the slightest, and it's pretty ironic, but doing something like that would get the man to not really trust her/would destroy their relationship, so that's likely why.
I have been amazed at how many "mistresses" justify what they do with all sorts of excuses. I think they somehow see themselves as innocent in their own minds, but telling the wife would bring all that to a head and they know damned well they would be vilified for what they've knowingly done, as they should be.
I hope I never have to deal with the situation, but perhaps some women want to be the mistress.
Cause the man doesn't wanna leave his wife and the stability, he want the best of both worlds and so he lying his stupid ass off
I once found out a guy I was seeing had a girlfriend and I didn’t hesitate at all to tell her. I sent her ALL the evidence I had.
Because he's not ready or willing to choose her over the wife at least yet and when they are both standing there saying who is your woman... he's most likely just to go back to the wife and dump the mistress at that point.
Its probably much more fun for her to walk in and see you both at it to be honest
Sometimes they do, but it is a risk because it can antagonize the guy.
Men need to grow a pair, that's all I can think
Women more likely could avoid such affairs or the chances of that happening by not competing for the top percent of wealthy men.
Cuz some are told they don't have a partner
What makes you think that all the "other women" want that?
I would just for him to get a divorce it's either me or her. But if made me wait I would definitely tell her that way I can have him.
Is this what the sisterhood looks like?
That’s terrible
actually genius
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