Married colleague chased me for 5 months with his sexual hints to be his constant mistress, tho I said no in the beginning. Recently I decided to have a conversation to understand his position. He said interesting things:
1. Absolutely all men cheat and it’s a normal way to get thrills and adrenaline
2. I asked him would he theoretically divorce in the future, he said “why not, it’d not be a nightmare for me as I see it constantly every day”
3. I asked him is there a chance man wouldn’t cheat, he answered “if only you’re always unattainable and treat him like sh&t, so he’ll be obsessed with you and no one else”.
My question: would a man who truly loves his wife say all these things-he’s ok to lose her someday, he cheats as she’s no longer unattainable and boring, it’s ok to get excitement consciously with constant mistress? His face was so calm at the convo like we discussed some broken chair that can be thrown out
