My husband cheated on me and complained that I don't give him love?

[Anonymous]

I'm so confused. My husband was not really there... or supportive of me when I was pregnant. He cheated on me so many times and I have resentment towards him. He never admits to being wrong he always blames me with everything. Today he said I don't give him love like other woman and I'm not giving him sex. I'm confused he was just messing around with his ex now he want my love. He yelled at me saying he wants a divorce because I'm not giving him sex. Why is he so angry at me when he's the one cheated?

[ProbablyClueless]

You're dealing with an emotionally abusive and neglectful person. You can't be surprised when an emotionally abusive and neglectful person acts emotionally abusive and neglectful and refuses to acknowledge that their behavior is the problem.

They wouldn't have been emotionally abusive and neglectful if they had the self awareness to realize that they are the villain.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Hmm, you're in a tough spot. Do you know the mistress? Try to get to be friends with her and compare notes. She must be doing something that he likes. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Try seducing her or invite her over for a threesome. Good luck.

[itsannalee]

He tries to manipulate you.
That’s what cheater always does.
Because he wants you to feel guilty and blame yourself.


Just leave him and move on.
Cheater won’t change, they will keep cheat on you on any way.

[Anonymous]

That's what cheaters do. Choose to chest then deflect the guilt. You are well to be rid of him.

[Anonymous]

I don’t even understand why you’re trying to figure this out. Nothing really to figure out other than how do I divorce this idiot. He treats you this way cause he’s a POS and you go to us to stay w him. It’ll always be this way cause you allow it to. If I was you I’d get a divorce.

[Summeroflove]

That’s how narcissists are you need to divorce he will never change and could pass a STD on to you. Everything with narcissists is YOUR fault. Never forget that

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like the relationship all together was missing communication, y'all are now picking up the pieces, he already committed adultery so how you choose to take this is how it will go.

[bowenw]

It sounds like he is trying to justify his cheating. I think it is time to end things while you are still young.

[Anonymous]

My husband doesn't leave the house with jam on his jar

[Ariesman81]

We want two women... a wife and a whore. It'd be awesome if they could be the same woman.

[jahaims]

Have some self respect and move on

[Pterodon]

Shame on you for staying

[HelpfulWoman]

make them an ex

[Anonymous]

I'm sure he's not wrong

[nicfire171]

Chest back