Situation with a guy, hoe should I respond to this?

[Anonymous]

[ShiftingMonke]

Is this the same guy from an earlier post? If so, and if this is his response, I would cut off contact. You've made more than enough effort to be supportive and he was fine pushing you away until you actually began to step away. Suddenly he changes course and offers to stay in touch? That's gaslighting and (operating under the assumption that it's the same guy/convo as earlier) then your earliest assumptions were correct, in that he is using mental health as a distancing measure, up until the point where he wants intimacy. I wouldn't give him any more benefit of the doubt.

[genericname85]

Fuck that. Why waste your time? I'd just reply: well it's gonna be 100% or nothing. You made your choice. Bye.

[BarryLiverstone]

“You have my number. Feel free to check in”

[Asker]

Gave him this exact answer. Told him I wouldn’t ghost in the beginning so I feel like I need to stick to my word, but now the ball is in his court to make things correct if he truly wants to. Thank you for this answer

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Yes it’s balls in his court

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the best response is none at all.