If woman get real standoffish & cranky with me immediately when speaking to one another, is that a sign that I might be unattractive?

[Anonymous]

I don't go out of my way to personally interact with others but I have noticed that when I HAVE TOO

7/10 of the woman I HAVE to interact with either act very standoffish, rude, or cold when I'm just there for groceries or paying bills or running a few errands

I don't smile at them or give hints in the slightest either... I'm very serious in my facial expressions

[FilmGuy93]

Realistically, it has nothing to do with you. Stories are all over the internet about how modern women have an insane amount of stress building up and they just lash out at people.

This is a thing that we know is happening. So you aren't alone

[Asker]

But if there being chatty/"friendly"/more "sincere" with everyone after me at a grocery line or whatnot

[FilmGuy93]

Do you have social anxiety? You might be reading into things too much. Or, maybe you give off unpleasant vibes yourself.

[Asker]

I'm pretty serious for the most part & I've noticed that a lot of the girls I have to interact with face to face get very bitchy right off the bat & tend to either have an annoyed expression on their face or very serious/cold

But what do you mean by "unpleasant" vibes? As in physical gestures

[FilmGuy93]

If you aren't much of a smiler, you might be scowling, or generally displaying a lack of interest in interacting with them. Your body language is likely closed off. You might have your arms crossed, or your shoulders slumped.

[Asker]

How does that explain the acting very condencending though?

[FilmGuy93]

If you come off like a touchy asshole, people will treat you like one.

[Asker]

What I'm just getting straight to the point in whatever is it I'm doing & NOT flirting & yet they get very rude regardless

[FilmGuy93]

Well now we know the problem. You think you're getting to the point, while they think you're being short and snappy with them. They're getting edgy with you because they think you're rude.

[Asker]

That still doesn't explain the random girls who had issues with me when I lived by them or around them

They acted very bitchy too

[FilmGuy93]

It explains it perfectly. The women are responding to your demeanor and bodylanguage. And frankly, even in this interaction I'm having with you now, I'm definitely picking up a feeling that you're kind of tightly wound.

[Asker]

It could also mean that I MIGHT be conveniently unattractive if I'm getting this much "NEGATIVE" attention

[FilmGuy93]

Uh... no... no, it really couldn't.

[Asker]

Sarcasm aside

It could be... if I can't get along with the opposite sex from scratch

I'm just assuming

[FilmGuy93]

Feminine attraction is a fickle beast. Being naturally attractive certainly wouldn’t hurt, but you’d be amazed at how much mileage you can get with women by dressing well and knowing how to have a stimulating conversation.

[Asker]

I've been called "handsome" woman in their 60's to 70's but rarely ever the gals In my age bracket

[slatyb]

Either it's your approach or your timing. Who are these women, and how do you encounter them? If you are asking random women for a date the second you see them, you aren't going to have much luck.

[Asker]

Cashiers, neighbors, classmates,

The problem is I don't flirt or "spit game"

I just conduct whatever transaction
(grocery shopping) but when we interact it usually leads to some animosity

a lot of the woman I HAD to Interrupt with get very snobbish & bitchy from the get go

[slatyb]

I would have to know the complete conversation to make any further comment.

[Asker]

As in? Elaborate