Was this a underhanded insult from my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I have my own biz as an exotic dancer and I do lap dances. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I just started doing this when i met him. . He lost his business during covid so he couldn't afford to help me out with my own biz. I had a very honorable career but it doesn't pay enough to support my family and its an exhausting occupation. I was burnt.

My guy says he respects me no matter what. I'm situationally bi. I give him threesomes with other women 2 or 3x a year.. To kind of be fair about my job and we both enjoy it.

We never ever discuss my job. Ever. This weekend he's visiting his kids.

He sends a text tonight how's it going? How was you're day? I responded, I'm alive. Lol. ( because I had a lot on my mind about my life) He responds Long day at work? That's a sensitive spot for me so I respond why would you ask that? Are you drinking?

Guys was that an underhanded insult or am I being too sensitive? My friend said it's an insult.

[WonderBell99]

He just asked if you had a long day at work... I don't see anything wrong with it.

Yes, you're being sensitive.

[Anonymous]

You are an idiot! He's your boyfriend for 5 years. Can't he even ask you that even if he hasn't asked before?

[Opinion Owner]

Her* boyfriend

[LazerBean]

You're being sensitive.

[Brando10222]

It's stupid, nothing sensitive about it. That guy is with her as her boyfriend for 5 years now. Can't he even ask that?