How to make myself undesirable?

Question

What can I do to make men not want me or notice me? What can I do to make MSN not talk to me or try to approach me.  Even when I try saying that I have HIV they still try.

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Whoa. There is no way... that it should ever come to having to lie and say you've got HIV.

I don't care HOW attractive men find you, I don't care how often you're subjected to unwanted attention. There is NO UNIVERSE where you need to go to that extreme to appear less attractive. That's... honestly... absurd (and unnecessary!)

If this is a genuine problem for you. And if you're lying about having AIDS, I'm thinking it might be (unless that was one specific time, and you're just a regular-super-hot-girl with the regular problems that naturally leads to). That shit I've seen dozens of times. I've never heard of someone literally telling guys she's HIV positive to get them to back off... that's... really fucked-up.

So if you're serious about this, and this is indeed beyond what any other extremely attractive girl has to put-up with because she's attractive... then I've got some easy answers for you. That don't involve lying about having AIDS.

You're not dumb. You know what makes a girl attractive. You know full-well how much work it takes just to be as attractive as you are. I don't care how little work you do to make yourself look like you do... you still do a lot of work. Because you're a girl. Hot or not, all girls do a shitload of work to look their best.

You... need to simply stop doing as much of that work. It's as simple as that.

It's unfortunate, because it does mean that you have to consciously make the choice to NOT look how you'd like to look... simply to keep from having so much unwanted male attention. That's really messed-up on it's own. I've never given this advice to anyone before. And I wouldn't ever give this advice to anyone else. Because you have the right to look however you think "looks best" just like everybody else does. It's wrong that you feel unable to do so because doing so results in more male attention than is tolerable.

It's an extreme solution, that's far from ideal. It's wrong that you should have to make that compromise, and look "worse" than you otherwise would on purpose. But if things are genuinely so bad that you're lying about having AIDS... it's time to just... choose to stop looking so good.

Don't wear makeup if you wear makeup.

DO wear makeup if you don't usually wear makeup.

Wear bummy clothes that hide your body.

Stop brushing your hair.

Skip showers.
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I'm not even joking. All of these things are definitely solutions you need to try BEFORE taking the extreme-drastic step of telling guys you've got AIDS. That's so fucked-up. If things really are that bad, there are many things you can do. You're not dumb. You know what those things are. Because... what the fuck... telling guys you're HIV positive... that's super-fucked-up. There's no way that's necessary.

Pacquet · Accepted Answer

I’m sorry you’re experiencing this, unwanted attention is a very tough solve for women. As a guy I’m not sure what you can do besides having a male figure with you or a group of friends to deter unwanted attention. I wouldn’t say anything like “I have HIV” and being “gross” doesn’t really do anything. If you want to go out on your own I would say carry some form of protection like pepper spray and/or those keychain alarms maybe even both and walk with a sense of purpose. If someone approaches you and doesn’t leave you alone after saying no once just sound the keychain alarm. I hope this helps.

SnowedIn · Answer

Hang on: I'm confused: in your last question from 13 days ago (   ) you said you just want fucking. Now you want to be undesirable? I don't understand.

RavVid · Answer

How are you dressing? Tight tops and short skirts is the only clue that we have that a girl is ovulating. Human female hidden estrous is a bugger.

Anonymous · Answer

open your mouth and keep talking that will drive any sane guy away with how swollen and big your ego is and how full of yourself you are. just this question alone has me running for the hills

Yellovv · Answer

That's making them want to sex with you more when you reject them that's why...

EaterPeter · Answer

Is fine written all over you?

ERB62 · Answer

God you must be dripping with sex appeal

ashish804 · Answer

they would.. since u must be beautiful and sexy

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