Just wondering if men would be super put off by a woman basically saying “I like you and you’ve got a decent chance with me if you want to pursue me.”
I don't think I would be turned off, but I would be caught off guard. I would probably wonder what the catch was.
Every woman I've known who claims to make things easy always makes things complicated.
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I wouldn't be offended per se. But that last part is foreshadowing. She's basically saying "ask me out but you're still not in the door". So I still might decide to reject you. Which is FINE but as I said, it's foreshadowing. I'm not going to pursue very hard a woman that has put me on "maybe" list. Whether she LIKES it or NOT she has to prove herself to ME as much I to her. 🙂
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No, I won't be turned off but nevertheless my answer will still be No.
I will refuse her politely and wish her best of luck to find a guy who will give her what she wants in life.
Done. Very turned off. Whether it's intended or not, the condescension in that statement is horrific.
Appreciative of the clarity, but confused- if she likes me, why does she intend to run?
I wouldn’t mind at all, I’m as dense as diamonds when they show interest in me.
Thats not a turn off, it's appreciated.
I've had it happen, and the times I said no were because she was not a match, not because she asked me out.No guy wants to be chased trope? I see it as a compliment, even if I don't like the woman.
Not at all, I’d be more like “…. wow, what? I feel like Po when Master Oogway chose him as the Dragon Warrior”
Nope, I won't be turned off, if girls if attractive then I will think about her.
I'd probably laugh tbh. Then I'd walk away.
it has to be a two way street. takes 2 to tango
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