I’m 31(f) and he is 34 (m) he is a boxer I’ve always tried to keep the conversation light hearted and sexual as I was getting the vibe he just wanted sexual. Throughout our conversations he’s been telling me that his body is all mine and also calling me baby all the time.
I wished him luck for his fight which he was super appreciative saying how he can’t wait to see me and have his life back. He unfortunately lost and messaged me straight after saying how gutted he was, I was giving him support and said how amazing he did. I then left the conversation at that as I wanted to give him space as I knew he was hurting. He then messaged me again saying all he wanted was a cuddle from me.
He was then asking if he could come and see me on my lunch break which I said I couldn’t, he was then asking why I can’t see him until the end of the week (this was Monday) and I straight up said to him it was because I couldn’t have sex. He said he just wanted a cuddle, I went over that night and stayed with him and he never tried anything.
The last time I saw him he said we was just casual I told him I would never want a relationship with him. That evening I went over and he was in a mood (he thought I was on the phone to another guy) as soon as we had sex he went straight on his phone and started messaging a girl but so I could see.
This annoyed me so straight away I turned my back on him and he apologised and said he had been an idiot but thought I was talking to another guy and then straight after said he doesn’t care what I do. This starts a big argument and he kept apologising
I have been told by my friend that he’s liked a photo of the girl we had an argument over and 2bh it bothers me! And it’s made me realise I can’t do casual anymore! I don’t want to compare myself to his other girls and I don’t want to be getting jealous!.
I’ve since been speaking to another guy who wants to take me on a date and seems great! How do I break it off with my friends with benefits? Should I ghost?
