This is reallly culturally dependent. In my culture that is a massive red flag that he doesn't care that you are showing off your body to other men. In my culture your body is your husbands chioce and The guys body is with the Wife choice. Hence why women buy mens clothing when they are older for there husbands lol.
Western Feminist women generally say its your body your choice.
There’s not a problem with that. A lot of people wear bikinis to the beach or pool. I’ve never seen someone following their girlfriend around with a towel trying to cover her up so the alternative is much worse.
Socially awkward is different than body/looks, etc. I can relate to your thought though, I am more of an introvert and had more socially awkward moments when I was younger.
Nobody can ever read others perfectly so I try to give people the positive self affirming assumption, which is, he knows your loyal and love him deeply, so he does not feel jealous when or if you go in a bathing suit.
Means exactly what he said. Women need to stop reading into men's actions. Most men don't think like women. If you have a question about his actions or anything really, just ask him.
Depends on what beach you are at. If it's a family beach then you should have appropriate swim wear on, however if you are at an adult beach with no children, then wear whatever makes you both comfortable. Confidence has nothing to do with clothing ✌️🇨🇦
Another relationship Kobayashi Maru. If he is okay with it, the girl will think she is not attractive. If he objects, she will think he's jealous and controlling.
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This is reallly culturally dependent. In my culture that is a massive red flag that he doesn't care that you are showing off your body to other men. In my culture your body is your husbands chioce and The guys body is with the Wife choice. Hence why women buy mens clothing when they are older for there husbands lol.
Western Feminist women generally say its your body your choice.
I want other guys to see my girlfriend's rocking body and see the look on their stupid faces when they realize she's with me
As long as they don't touch her, they can look all they want. It's not a big deal
Seriously you need to get out of your own head, this is getting ridiculous
It means everyone wears bikinis and he’s not a jealous insecure control freak
Depends on the bikini, some are more revealing than others. My wife doesn't wear a thing bikini or go topless when we are with our family.
There’s not a problem with that. A lot of people wear bikinis to the beach or pool. I’ve never seen someone following their girlfriend around with a towel trying to cover her up so the alternative is much worse.
It means he has no worries/ trusts you…. and may / potentially want to show you off.
I don’t think anyone wants to show off their socially awkward girl friend
Socially awkward is different than body/looks, etc.
I can relate to your thought though, I am more of an introvert and had more socially awkward moments when I was younger.
I think it just shows that he's secure with himself.
Nobody can ever read others perfectly so I try to give people the positive self affirming assumption, which is, he knows your loyal and love him deeply, so he does not feel jealous when or if you go in a bathing suit.
Means exactly what he said. Women need to stop reading into men's actions. Most men don't think like women. If you have a question about his actions or anything really, just ask him.
Most guys like it when other guys look at their girlfriend or wife. Wear as small of a bikini as you can and I promise he will go wild!
Meanwhile your bikini is floating in the pool, would love to see what i'm missing?
@LeftHappy lol
No, seriously!
Depends on what beach you are at. If it's a family beach then you should have appropriate swim wear on, however if you are at an adult beach with no children, then wear whatever makes you both comfortable. Confidence has nothing to do with clothing ✌️🇨🇦
LOL! Oh, my goodness! I'm gonna pack you up and take you home! You're just way TOO CUTE!🤣
ALL he's saying is that won't try to control what you want to wear. Clearly, he loves you, and you still lack confidence in your beauty!
It just means he’s not super jealous. He’s not saying your body’s not attractive.
It means he has a stable ego at least in this scenario and that's good
I guess he meant wear whatever you want. It is your choice and not his.
No, that's not what it means. Stop being so insecure.
Another relationship Kobayashi Maru. If he is okay with it, the girl will think she is not attractive. If he objects, she will think he's jealous and controlling.
He does care. He likes showing off his trophy.
He’s fine with you wearing a bikini and if men look at you, oh well. However, there’s a fine line between just looking and them touching you.
@sasha0426 She never said anything remotely having to do w/ anyone touching her.
Ok 🤷♀️
@sasha0426 Just seems odd they you can take a written statement and come away w/ that response.
You’re right 🤷♀️
@Vegasrunner Leave her alone. You're being an ass.
@sasha0426 Why did you?
I don’t know 🤷♀️
@Sasha0426 Just ignore him. You didn't do anything wrong.
@sasha0426 Is it fair to say you were triggered and reacted with the most emotional POV you could think of?
Sure 🤷♀️
@Vegasrunner Fuck off, dude.
@sasha0426 TY.
@Vegasrunner You’re welcome ☺️
Looking at this logically, unless you have a private pool when going for a swim, people are going to look. He can't do anything about it
What do you think you should wear, a full suit of clothes and a barrel?