Is my boyfriend just blaming me for his stress or am I being to blunt?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been concerned about what me and my bfs future is like he doesn’t like to talk about it, just the things he wants, so he freaked out and said im stressing him even more, what I pretty much said was he needs to work towards finding a job that pays the same but he isn’t being so emotionally drained, I just feel very stressed because I work through my problems by planning, we have been together for 3yrs and he is bringing up buying a house together when he still has to open a savings account he is almost 30, what can I do or not do to make this better or am I at a dead end?

[Zayed_]

Women=stress

you’re one of many reasons but you didn’t do wrong

[Asker]

so if women=stress what makes a women worth it to you? Lol especially if she is asking the same questions as me.

[Zayed_]

It’s hard to pin point what makes a woman worth it to marry because my ideology would be different from his and pointing out anything from my side wouldn’t help you in this matter

[Asker]

Still curious tbh

[Zayed_]

From my taste it would be a woman who understands my religious nature.
A woman who understands that what I ask from her is what I’m also giving.
Marriage=⚖️

[Asker]

I actually love that response

[Zayed_]

Thank you

[abc3643]

Dead end

[Danny_dan92]

Not right

[Asker]

Is there solution tho that I’m not seeing what would you do if the roles were reversed?

[Danny_dan92]

Breakup. It’s not right for someone to take out their personal stresses on others that have nothing to do with them