What's the difference between an ALPHA & a BRUTE to woman?

[Anonymous]

I'm very curious about this one because I've noticed that I get "penalized" for a lot of the same actions an ALPHA gets praised for...

Basically I'm an unattractive guy for starters But Im known to be very aggressive & relentless by default by others

I've got a male version of "resting Bitch face"

I lift crazy weight & I'm in great shape & I do talk MAD SHIT about others & I do back up what I can at least...

I've noticed that most woman are never receptive to me in a positive way

Others guys act like I do or worse & they get "postive" affirmations

Could it be that it's my face that's holding me back?

[noemiii]

I go to the gym regularly and I’ve very rarely seen a true alpha male. Alpha males in my opinion in the fitness world are the ones not concerned with whatever is going on around them, whether it be women or comparison to others, and are there solely for physique. Most men aren’t alpha they just may possess an alpha physique. I actually see more alpha females than male.

If you need to use aggression to get your point across then you’re not an alpha male. And being aggressive and unattractive doesn’t get you any special points. Being unattractive with money does. It just makes you seem bitter about how you look, honestly.. like people who are incredibly rude because they are poor and take it out on the world. So if you want some respect build your bank account up.

[Asker]

I'm curious about your

"unattractive but aggressive" line

If an unattractive guy is aggressive/commanding then it comes off as bitter?

So maybe I'm being "sidelined" & not seen as "assertive"? Because I'm unattractive? Even if I some authority here & there

[noemiii]

It depends on if you’re acting out of the fact that you’re unattractive and think nobody will take you seriously, or you’re just in general an a*s but it’s well known in society attractive people get passes for behaviors like that. That’s just how it is. Like you being weird and quiet would be just you being weird and quiet, vs. an attractive person it’s “mysterious and eccentric”

I think it’s better to move through society as aloof if you want to seem dominating. There is nothing you can do about it except better your response or better your funds. Short men tend to act overly aggressive because they feel sidelined too so that’s why I assume the same, just a fragile ego presenting as overly aggressive.

[Asker]

A few things have been on my mind from personal experiences

I've noticed that many of my female neighbors would have "problems" with me shortly after realizing I was their neighbor

They would either get "scared" of my presence while others would get very irritated & others would either LOL when seeing me

The men would act very passive aggressive towards me mostly just gawking straight at me

Some would smirk

Some would frown

But the pattern I've noticed with most men was that they felt a lot of contempt when around me

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Alphas do not exist.