Everytime my boyfriend has some problems or in bad mood or overthunking
He distances from me
Why?
Im the one always helping and supporting him
When he feels good he wants spend time with me and makes plans
When he feels like shit he doesn't even want to have a coffee with me, not eveb staying at his house or he in mine
I kinda get sad and offended, because he does drinks beer with hsi mate tho
So i dont get... why in bad mood is ok to drink beer with his friend but not eating pizza and cuddle with me?
Literally got rejected because of his bank finance problems, not paying taxes and all this kind of problem now he tries to solve
Why he is like this? are males all like this?
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This is what is going on inside your man's head. Guys are different than girls in this way. We do not like emotional draining questions or texting. When we get too much emotional stuff from the women, we go the other way. We often need two days to recover and Guy time.
And if the woman is texting while away with more emotional craziness THEN my attitude never gets back to pleasant. At best, once I miss her I can take short amount of interactions... until she starts with the mothering and emotional questioning and into my Business.
Why won't he share how he feels
Why he prefers his mate to be with and not me
Im the closest person to him
I see him cry sometimes, not his mate
In society he goes all macho man
Some males are like this.
Some will take their problems out on the people they love the most. You're a scapegoat and he knows you won't leave him
How am i scapegoat if he doesn't want to meet with me?
He's taking it out on you by not meeting with you
Maybe scapegoat was the wrong word
Tell you're sorry he's having trouble and you want to help him through it, but he can't jeep taking it out on you.
Sometimes women just need to show us a picture of our own ass
Either that or you drive hom crazy, but that doesn't sound like the case
Thanks
Ill what to tell him