Why is he distracting himself from me?

[Anonymous]

Hi

This guy and I have been friends for 3 years now and we were very very close, we always had long meaningful conversations and just really good friends extremely close

8 months ago we decided to... have s#x one night, we both were really close had an amazing understanding of each other so we both agreed

After that on my side everything was great nothing changed but he started getting weird... when we hung out no conversations from him, he would completely distract himself on his phone, when coming over he would always bring a friend with him he couldn't be alone with me... I would always catch him staring at me but I can't ask him because we hardly talk

It's just sad because nothing changed for me I still look at him as the same great person but for him something changed... he knows I'm still the same but he won't talk about what's going on with him

Please help

[DoctorSex]

In my extensive experience with women, after sex things NEVER just stay the same. You've just let a guy inside you and you believe in your head that you're still the same towards him, but that's simply not the case, especially if you like him.

Sounds like you're being a lite overbearing and he's slowly getting irritated. Or he didn't enjoy that night with you. If I was to put all my eggs in one basket I'd say you emotionally blackmailed him in some way. You made him feel like he had to progress into a relationship.

I'm not saying you're wrong for doing this or wanting more, I'm just saying that if these things weren't established beforehand, it can feel like a bit of emotional manipulation by you.

That's just my 2 cents from the limited bit of information you've given.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Guy13]

READY: He has been rejected. Sex then Emotional for a guy but you guys already had some of that Bond.

I didn’t realize what a cold-hearted B-you were…dating app slide. I can’t believe I misread her so much…. hey, man/friend…. look at this Story from etc.

she's got no idea what I feel for her. Damn stupid, what was I thinking. “Nah, I’m not thinking anything-sort of blank today.”