Men, do you insist on being the driver?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lol i have the same question. My boyfriend likes picking me up and driving me everywhere. Dont get me wrong, im not complaining, but there are times, rarely, that my car’s the one we’re using and sometimes i just want to be the one driving for a change. He doesn't say “no” to it but he’s very uncomfortable with it. He tells me and i can also see it in his face. Its nothing serious i dont think. I tease him a little bit, grabbing his thighs like he’s the passenger princess for once lol.

Anyway, i think its a sense of masculinity thing. Yes, it sounds petty, but some men tend to think that way. That driving the girl is the chivalrous thing to do. Which is true, but it also shouldn’t emasculate them if it’s the other way around. Its not that serious. I love being in the passenger’s seat for the most part though, especially the long drives, so i dont think about it that much.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I don't allow my husband to drive unless I'm dying. Gives me to much anxiety so it's just better if I drive us everywhere

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I prefer to drive. I think she prefers it too cause she can crash out for a while lol plus I drive a little faster, I know where I’m going, how long it’s going to take, what stops I want to make. Besides I want to know that if I was ever in an accident I did everything I could to avoid it. Not one of those what if scenarios, like what if I was driving would we be ok. I hope that makes sense. I get driving a little faster doesn’t help my chances of avoiding an accident but I’ve been driving for over 20 plus years w no tickets or accidents, so I think I’m doing pretty good.

Guardian45 · Accepted Answer

My car. I drive.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nope. I've actually had women insist that I drive though.

MrOracle · Answer

I virtually always drive, and all the women I've been with have always strongly preferred that. The only time a girl ever insisted on driving was when she just got a new car (new to her, anyway), and after a couple of days, she was back to wanting me to drive.

Emiliamazing · Answer

I enjoy being driven around🥰. We almost always take my husbands vehicle if we go anywhere as a family or on a date. I drive myself to work and other hobby related activities.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I don’t insist but I do enjoy it a lot. I drive my parents everywhere and I have become the designated driver among my friends in any driving situation…

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

My mom always insists that I drive. In fact, I am the one who always insists she drives on long roads. She says it is too tiring and I am a guy, so I should do the hard work more. I am like Heh?

Anonymous · Answer

No. My sister always insists in driving if I go anywhere with her. But otherwise typically I drive. I don't insist. The people I go with typically just don't want to drive and I got no problem with it. I do most My driving alone so this doesn't come up much anyways.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Nope. I usually was, though- at least until she'd get sick of the way I drive and insist on taking over.

Anonymous · Answer

My man drives when we go anywhere because I don't have licence. It doesn't bother him because he likes to do that for me. But he wouldn't be against me driving him, although only sometimes.

Anonymous · Answer

He always drives when we're together. I think it would look kind of weird if I drove and he was in the passenger seat.

Bricealan · Answer

When I would drive, I wife would always "Back seat drive" so I gave up and told her to drive. She refused.

A_Bell · Answer

I hope so. I hate driving, especially in traffic or long sleepy distances.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope. An ex was carsick as a passenger so she would drive us around

AviatorTom · Answer

No, my SO often drives us when we go out. On long trips, we take turns.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I would need for her to be the driver.

exitseven · Answer

I can drive in my wife's car when she is driving but of she is driving my truck i go nuts.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not at all, I actually prefer to take a break from driving and be the passenger that gets to look around at things.

Lionman95 · Answer

No not all. I offer to drive but nothing I'd insist on since I know many women that are good drivers.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Usually, but only because it is usually my vehicle taking us places.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

If it's my car I do the driving. If it's your car you can drive me.

the_sinner · Answer

Not always. Sometimes I wanna enjoy the ride by admiring the scenario around and I can’t do that while driving.

notwoke · Answer

Yes, I want to live and I want to get there while I"m still young. On top of that, every woman I've ever been with prefers that I drive, then complains about my speeding but won't drive themselves. you gotta love it

Anonymous · Answer

The only time she drives is if she's the designated driver on a night out. Otherwise I always drive. We both prefer it that way.

najekim · Answer

Wife prefers me driving so she can practice her rubber necking. ;)

msc545 · Answer

Usually I do prefer it unless I am verry tired. I get nervous when someone else is driving.

MPA1981 · Answer

I prefer to drive. My partner prefers she drives her car but sometimes offers for me to drive  I don't like being a passenger but I'm not going to demand anything. If it is her car it's her choice

Heterosketero · Answer

She needs a mounted 50 cal to even that situation out.

Pegases · Answer

Yes, because most of the women I know, make me fear for my life when they drive.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes. I almost always drive but not every time. Sometimes it doesn't make sense to and then I let one of my gfs drive.

HappySquarePants · Answer

Seeing as how I can't drive for shit and don't have a license, you could take over, Babe.

Pete671 · Answer

It's a control thing, but many women lack confidence behind the wheel,,,

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

No, I can't drive due to seizures. It would be very risky.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Usually. It depends if she is a good driver or not and how she feels about it.

noohair · Answer

Male ego. I love having my daughter drive. My ex, not so much because I don't want to die.

SunnyRS · Answer

Nope, I don't like driving  I prefer riding like a bike or a cycle.

LordOfThePines · Answer

Not usually, I don't mind driving or letting my spouse drive.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Definitely not. If she wants to drive, great!

Jennz6 · Answer

They do and I love it

humanearth · Answer

I rather not drive if I don't have to.

Mansearching · Answer

No. I end up being it.

clampfan101 · Answer

I’d love for both of us to know how to drive.

BCRanger10 · Answer

I don't insist, I just usually am.

21Cowboy21 · Answer

Homie in the back just chilling lol

BLP11520 · Answer

My wife makes me drive

Anonymous · Answer

I for one would love for my man to be the driver.

dinojames22 · Answer

My exs driving scares me

Notsoshyguy1985 · Answer

Not at all

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