Odd behavior of a guy or just f boy behavior?

[Anonymous]

What are the reasons a guy would want to follow / keep up with everything you are doing and always ask about your life but not allow you to follow them back / want you to know what is going on in their life. I get wanting to have your cake and eat it too but does this seem a little far? Or is it all about having control over somebody?

[Anonymous]

It is possible that this behavior could be indicative of a person who wants to have control over your relationship or who is only interested in the attention and validation they receive from you, without reciprocating in a meaningful way. They may want to keep you at arm's length in order to maintain a sense of power or control over the relationship, or to avoid any potential consequences or accountability for their actions.

It is important to remember that every individual and relationship is unique, and that it can be difficult to determine someone's motivations or intentions without additional context or information. However, if you feel like this behavior is causing you discomfort or stress, it may be helpful to communicate your feelings and boundaries clearly to the person, and to prioritize your own emotional well-being and values in any decision-making process. If the behavior continues or escalates, it may be important to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or a professional counselor to help navigate the situation.

[Anonymous]

He's probably got some skeletons in his closet that he doesn't want you to see