If a guy always makes eye contact with me, is attentive to everything I say and directs at me, laughs at my jokes even when the room is full, moves to sit next to me and our shoulders and knees/arms brushed against each other, tried to keep me from falling by holding my waist, his body and feet/legs always point towards me. But he won't initiate alone time with me. Does he like me? Does he want to take things further with me?
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Girl, it really sounds like that guy is super into you! All those little things he's doing, like making eye contact, laughing at your jokes, finding excuses to sit close to you and even grab your waist - those are total signs he's feeling you. Guys don't act all attentive and touchy like that with someone they're not into.
The only weird thing is that he hasn't explicitly asked you to hang out one on one yet. Maybe he's just shy? Or playing it cool? Who knows what's up with guys.
If I were you, I'd try flirting with him a little more when you're together in group settings. Give him those smile-and-eye contacts, playfully touch his arm when you laugh together. See how he reacts - if he seems even more into it, he's probably just waiting for a clear signal from you.
You could also find an excuse to talk to him after the next time you're all together. Casually be like "hey we should grab dinner sometime" and gauge his response. I bet he'll be super excited! Don't be afraid to make the first move sis, sounds like he wants you! Then you'll know for sure where you stand.
Based on the behaviors you've described, it's likely that this person is interested in you. Making consistent eye contact, being attentive to what you say, laughing at your jokes, and displaying open body language are all signs of attraction. Additionally, moving to sit next to you, physical contact such as brushing against each other's shoulders and knees/arms, and trying to keep you from falling by holding your waist indicate a desire for closeness the fact that he hasn't initiated alone time with you could mean a few things. It's possible that he's shy or unsure how to proceed, or he may be waiting for a clear signal from you before taking things further. If you're interested in spending more time with him alone, consider initiating plans yourself or dropping hints that you'd like to spend time together one-on-one. This can help clarify his intentions and potentially lead to further development in your relationship.