Help me with this guy's behaviour?

[bow2121]

I've been in the same university class with this guy since semester one, but I didn't notice him until we were in our third year, conducting our mandatory non-academic activities.

We were suddenly grouped together. He then HMU on Teams, and ever since, he's been texting me on messenger almost every night as if we've known each other for a long time although we haven't.

He was never missed with good mornings, good nights, or a few flirting jabs from him. Which making it more complicated for me

To be honest, I'm afraid of guys who I can't read, just as I'm worried of myself since I'm the type of person who can readily pick up on feelings that eventually can hurt me later on.

I've that dilemma where as a member of my university's student body and I also participate in the " find a friend to talk to" campus program, my peers do come to me to talk about their problems and those were just mere helping out others. But his situation is currently just complicated for me

I don't want my feelings crushed because of my own expectations, but I can't ignore the fact that someone needs my help or at the very least my presence as a listener.

[AncientWisdom]

Just say what you think. Why the hell don’t people communicate if you feel he’s overstepping boundaries fucking say so. Beating around the goddamn bush just creates stupidity. What the hell are you scared of it the 2022 he is not going to kill you and eat you on sandwich bread. Be nice say what’s up dude I don’t know you like that man. Chill. If he don’t let him have it simple and solved could be he’s just lonesome. But you figger he’s pushing up. If that’s what your feminine tells you then that’s your bullshit detector listen to that how the hell are you modern women ignoring your damn inherent gifts that evolved in your minds to tend to this shit. They are doing something to y’all

[Carolus]

Nobody can help you in this, to love, to be in a relationship is all a risk and no guarantees. You are interested in him (that’s why you are bothered and in denial but afraid), you are loving the texts girl - admit it. It’s a risk and its up to you to decide whether to take or not. You can’t have the cake and eat it. Life isn’t linear, shit happens all the time and never be afraid to live, nobody is coming out alive remember, so live, you might kiss a few frogs along before meeting your prince, show some love to this guy. The biggest risk is not taking the risk because life isn’t a dress rehearsal.

[SkyCastle90]

Be careful. When someone (male/female) acts like they know you without getting to know you is a red flag, because it's a manipulative tactic to build trust faster and easier.

Also, don't date or start a relationship with someone you're not attracted to, your heart won't be in it and you'll just end up hurting him.

[GlassTop]

You have a job to take care of others are you also have a guy flirting with you. Does that summarize it? What exactly do you want? Go on a date with him or tell him you’re not interested. Problem solved.

[Iron_Man]

Enjoy the moment go with the flow don’t give your heart away or you might be sitting there crying by yourself alone

[In_Trance]

I don't understand what you're asking here