He mentiosn his ex everyday?

[Anonymous]

Should i accept it?

Like every little things he thinks about her

I say my hand hurts, he is lime oh mine too... but because this finger is broken, she broke it

We came to shop and there is a book about how to del with toxic people

He is like :i should buy it and give it to my daughter so she gives it to her mom

He made this exact comment 3 times!! every time we see this book he says exact same thing

I dont k ow what to do

What to say

Just random everyday stuff remind him of her everyday and im sick

[Stevefiveo]

Tell him, that he is mentioned her too much. Tell him that he is with you now, not her. Tell him to concentrate on you. He should know better.

[Asker]

I told him
And he said i must understand she was the most important thing to him in his life
And she will always be the mom of his kid
But wtf it has to do with these EVERYDAY comments

[Stevefiveo]

Oh, well he is not going to get over her. He already told you that she is always going to be more important than you. So break up with him and tell him that he can go back to her since she is the most important.

[Asker]

He said she Was the most important she sent him to jail for 10 month
She is heroin addict... she stole money from her kid...
When she sent my boyfriend old documents and old pics he showed me everything
He was shaking and crying asking wtf she wants why won't she leave him alone
She said she wants to give him his old stuff in person, he refused and said no way
She said she will burn it all

[Stevefiveo]

Oh wow! Runaway as fast as you can!

[Asker]

Wait
Why?
He is good to me in the rest of aspects
I have no issues with him
Only this thing is bothering me

[Stevefiveo]

He already told you that she is more important than you and always will be. What other red flag do you need?

[Asker]

He said she was... WAS in the past
Now he says he doesn't care about her
He wants his kid to be happy and he knows with druggadict mom is hard

[Asker]

She was his wife for 20 years

[Stevefiveo]

There are red flags all over this story to me. But if you are happy, then stick with it.

[Asker]

Im not happy

[Asker]

Whe i say im not
He says we should break up

[Stevefiveo]

I think it would be best. But it's your call.