Why do men feel the need to comment negatively on woman’s appearance unprovoked when I didn’t even ask?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Like I was telling him about this guy I liked but he seen me leave with another guy and he said “two guys one night” your punching above your weight”

then on here randomly a guys like what do you expect when your a 5. NEVER have I felt the need to give my opinion on someone’s looks straight to their face unless they asked for it or wanted me to tell them my opinion and even then I would say it doesn’t matter because either I don’t want to offend them or inflate their ego. But men are so rude

[LazerBean]

Because they dislike you. Men don't normally do that sort of thing, but for some reason apparently a lot of men look down on you.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Most men don’t like I have 4 guys friends and they only comment on me if they’re being nice to me. One is gay and one is in a relationship so I know he isn’t just simping. Why do you think some look down on me then? Because it’s definitely not all.

[LazerBean]

Because you said a significant amount of men are mean to you

[Sleeper07]

@Bekaaaaaaaahhhh Lady; men and women cannot be friends. Except for the gay dude, maybe.

Stop stringing dudes along.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

The first is more of a judgement on your behavior. You're talking to a guy about some other bloke you like, then proceed to go with yet another man.

The second was a direct response to one of your questions and probably had to do with your behavior and went to also talk about your looks as an afterthought, not the primary reason.

It's more or less that both were comments on you as a person, not your looks. Many people judge others based on their actions.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

They’re judging me by my mistakes I’m young I’m new to clubbing and dating I never dated or went clubbing in my teens and I’ve never been in a relationship and I recently lost a lot of weight and gained a ton of confidence I never had in my life of being overweight almost obese, so it’s obvious with all of that considered I’m going to make mistakes here and there.

[notwoke]

we hold back at about 99%. Actually we want to dump all overweight women in the middle of the ocean. Their existence infuriates us. If he said this I can just imagine what he was really thinking

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Am I overweight? Lol

[notwoke]

a bit

[boggboss]

Its the people u are interacting with this is not normal stuff

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I never comment on peoples appearance unless it’s something nice because it’s weird as hell and also my opinion isn’t that important neither should theirs be I know

[boggboss]

Many people have inflated egos and don't care about saying somthing shitty

[MrCommodore]

You seem like a nice, you'd be a good girlfriend.

[AngryCarl2]

Well he wasn't commenting on your appearance he was commenting about your behavior.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

The first scenario or second?

[AngryCarl2]

Oh the first one. I got distracted before I could read the rest.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Seems to me like you're hanging out with rude people. Not all guys are like that.

[Anonymous]

What exactly did you say that’s why they’re making these comments?

[Rohaan2020]

Its not only for women... some people are just creep and get happiness out of degrading others... so its better if u just ignore them...

[Anonymous]

They're just teasing you a bit, probably because they want to bang you. If you're hot enough to turn them on, you're plenty hot.

[TallAnon]

People with a with a weak ego feel better when making others feel worse.

[Anonymous]

ATTENTION SEEKER ALERT! THAT'S EXACTLY WHY PEOPLE CALL YOU HO!

[Summeroflove]

They’re just trolls

[Summeroflove]

You’re a genuinely good looking woman. I have seen some ugly people on here too

[Fuentes]

Stop caring what people say

[Anonymous]

I don't know.