Especially the women that wear revealing or sexy clothes. Like they aren't wearing that so some creep can stare at them.
Even Jesus didn't agree with men staring and creeping on women đ
How about we quote some jesus verses about dressing provocatively.
And you're gonna pretend that women don't check me out, shove their assets in my face, and catcall me with every opportunity? It's not annoying but embarrassing. And no, I'm not afraid that they'll rape me or something which probably is the case for you. Just carry a military grade horror cock in your pocket, be strong and smart like wilmareportu, learn to defend yourself and report others to proper authorities for staring.
If you were the woman in the photo you should've told those brown fuckers that you're about to unleash a tor**** of unholy coom that will make them blind if they don't stop staring.
How about you pause for a moment and warn them that you're gonna pull out a laser pointer and point it at their eyes... and they will look away if they wish to avoid getting their eyes glued shut by the coom of the mighty laser. That's if you're really annoyed by them staring. Maybe purposely make the laser beam so weak that it's physically incapable of causing damage to the eyes, but the fuckers won't know whether it is or isn't powerful enough. And, this way if they report you to the proper authorities for such unacceptable behaviours such as pointing lasers in people's eyes, you will have the excuse of saying that you ensured that the laser pointer isn't strong enough to cause actual damage, but only to scare them away.
i use the rule of 3's:
-i look at everyone, but i don't look for more than 3 seconds. (1st look).
-if someone is remarkable they might get a double-take, just showing appreciation, still not longer than 3 seconds (2nd look)
-don't do it (3rd look). because now ur just being a creep.
this is what i practice and what i taught my kids.
"Male instinct" is not an excuse, but it IS the explanation closest to the truth.
but men are hardwired to look. Now that doesnât mean hardwired to stare, follow, cat call etc. Men can definitely control that. It requires considerable conscious effort for a man to not look though and the problem is that men donât see any problem with âjust lookingâ because itâs viewed as âharmless.â Men (largely) donât have personal experience with the feeling of being objectified in public and, if they do, it is extremely rare that they fear for their personal safety as a result. Lacking that personal experience, guys really need others to express how âjust lookingâ can make women/girls feel very uncomfortable and unsafe.
They believe theyâre above all women and that weâre merely existing for their pleasure.
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Lock these creeps up. We should have an entire police division for these individuals.
Okay why would a woman dress provocatively in the first place? Quit the mental gymnastics bs excuses because she does it for no other reason other then wanting attention. Period. And donât tell me itâs about âconfidenceâ. Thatâs still completely about attention because it boosts a womanâs confidence to get attention from men she actually wants to notice her. She particularly does this to âcompeteâ with other women. Itâs a âone upâ if more people notice her than other women. Huge part of it.
But she canât expect to only get attention from where she wants itâs vs where she doesnât. She canât expect men she doesnât like to magically read her mind and look away.
For the record it is indeed creepy to look for an extended amount of time. But guys will reflexively notice women and the instinct to glance will hit them before they even realize it. But when they do realize it thatâs when they got to look away. But some guys are slower to realize this then others. Most guys improve with age on this but not all.
Anyway I am really fed up with the female hypocrisy of dressing provocatively while simultaneously getting upset about the wrong men who stare to long. Extremely fed up with that hypocrisy.
Itâs like women do this intentionally because they want the victim status of being âharassedâ because victim hood has merit nowadays in itself.
Everyone looks at everyone. Guys look at girls and girls look at Guys. Staring at anyone is just plain creepy. I've seen girls in school rip open a boys shirt just because she thought he was sexy and everyone just laughed. As boys/Guys we are taught to respect girls/women but respect is a two way street. I do look at women I don't think I feel entitled to it though it's just natural. I think women feel entitled to do what they want to Guys and nothing happens. I've mowed the lawn shirtless and had women yelling sexual things to me. Do they not feel entitled? If I see a woman wearing a bikini I'm going to look not stare and I don't think I'd yell sexual things at her but yeah definitely going to look! I have a girlfriend that I totally respect and she respects me as well. I'm curious to know how you would go about asking for a Guys permission to look at him? That sounds creepy as hell!! Imagine if I went up to a woman and asked her if I could look at her? She'd slap my face and it would be justified because that's creepy!!
Yea but you are missing the meaning behind the scripture, "if it causes you to sin" which is most likely referring to sexualizing women which many do seem to do but there's guys that dont do it to sexualize and just admire their beauty and I'm guilty of the second one, taken or single a woman can be beautiful and their relationship status doesn't change it, I don't personally recall the last time I stared at a woman and thought "I wanna fuck her" although I do think "woah she is beautiful" beautiful eyes, beautiful this, beautiful that, there's definitely a difference considering God gave us the ability to detect beauty with our eyes, now turning that beauty into something dirty is where I personally believe this scripture is speaking about.
Mathew 5:28-32
28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.
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31 âIt has been said, âAnyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.â[a]32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Anything in public view is subject to public scrutiny. This idea that giys can not look at a woman is a form of social control.
I get that some guys get a bit too aggressive, yet there is also a level of "what do you mean that I can't LOOK at something?"
Truth is this, I've been accused of this while looking PAST her at something else (reading a sign). And there's no defense as its a fully perceptional argument. She felt that I was being "creepy" while I didn't even realize that she was there.
But this issue is one of those things that creates gender issues.
No one is entitled but I guess it's normal for a guy to want to look which by itself isn't a problem and also understandable if a girl dresses sexy. It's becoming a problem when having a quick look turns into starring or other creepy/inappropriate behaviour
Because many men are seduced to the belief that a woman or a beautiful woman would make them the most confident men in society and the planet.
It's her beauty that encourages his confident and high self-esteem. Most men don't believe in their own self-individuality and own self-confident. It's the woman touch that strives his balance in life and goals. But imagine that a very confident man that's empowered by his own self confident needs to be appraised by a woman that shows no attraction towards him.
A woman who knows people would laugh at her own husband, boyfriend, or children. Another thing to their sexual desires because of the exposure of pornography thar successfully became an online empire that's viewed by more then 85% of men. That's a big number. Men aren't focused on themselves. Now it's time that they do 😀
It is not a sin to admire the beauty of others. It is a sin to lust for that beauty. The creep, rapist, and the pervert covet, for they have already sinned in their hearts. The honest person beholds the the splendor around them.
Peacocks arenât entitled to anything.
Why do men feel entitled to stare at women? It's not illegal and they don't need a girl's permission to stare. I'm not endorsing or defendning the behavior but men have the right to stare at women in public.
Especially the women that wear revealing or sexy clothes. Like they aren't wearing that so some creep can stare at them. Please explain why they are wearing revealing clothing if they don't want others to look at the way they are dressed. Isn't it obvious that if a girl goes out in public dressed in a short skirt that reveals her panties whenever she bends over, and her boobs are hanging out, that she is going to attract make attention? And she knew that when she was selecting her wardrobe earlier in the day.
Why are you dressing inappropriately? 🧐
Instead of blaming guys for staring you should look in the mirror at your own actions because you are to blame when you dress inappropriately and you can't blame it on the people staring at you!!! 🤦🏻ââïž😵â💫
If I decide to get outside on the streets fully naked without any clothes on... Is it then fair to blame all woman that are staring at me? 🤨
Before blaming others... make sure you look in the mirror at your own poor decision making!
I wonder if you ever look at your own mistakes when you ask this kind of question tbh... Because it seems you don't do it often enough🧐
Absolutely not but im sure youve seen some of the misogynistic dudes om here. One I recall saying he doesnât give a shit of women dont like it and you should just âget over itâ lol. What a douche.
anyways i only stare if she wants me to ;)
I think it's past instinct and part culture. Like a lot of young boys out of curiosity due to lack of knowledge and experience tend to gawk at women and social pears.
This is to some extent natural however the problem is it is excused away with lines like "boys will be boys" and a soft education system that is too grade focused and lacks in its role of socialising young minds to be acceptable members of society.
Now whilst some might argue that a women is inviting risk when she wears more sexually revealing clothing this is a flawed argument as if basically results in the sought of "victim blame culture" we have fostered as a society.
Im an agnostic so idc about what some religious guy or woman did say. Its so simple that men are more visual gender when women are more emotional compared to men. So that's why men are more likely to look at beautiful women than women look at handsome men. But im not justifying creepy looks at women. Its so barbaric and scary thing to do. I would be scared too if a woman looks me the same way.
Iâm not sure itâs entitlement. Sometimes itâs shock and we canât help ourselves. Iâm not convinced women are much different, either when it comes to men or other women. Just last night my partner and I were out at a wine and spirits show. We were both, well lubricated, and did a double take when this stunning, tall, skinny brunette glided past in a brown sheer dress showing off an incredible rack. We both stared, until she leaned over to whisper, âOh my God! Do you think theyâre real?â 😂 Surely youâve come across a hot guy you couldnât help but notice and caught yourself daydreaming and getting wet?
No I don't even feel the urge to if I see someone attractive I will usually smile if they smile back I engage a conversation, usually after seeing each other a few times if not then I don't look at them anymore or really notice them. That is to say I'm not looking for a relationship with all the women I smile at I just like being friendly with most people I meet regularly.
Listen I just wanna put this out there because I feel its necessary. Even I look at women. But its not because I'm gay or anything, which I'm not. Very straight. Its because im jealous. she's better looking, in better shape. Of course im gonna look in envy. Im not supporting creeps but maybe some people aren't staring just because they are creepy...
Because men have eyes and women arenât invisible
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1 Peter 3:2-5
2 when they see your respectful and pure conduct. 3 Do not let your adorning be externalâthe braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wearâ4 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. 5 For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands,
BECAUSE THEY DONT UNDERSTAND HOW DISGUSTING THEY LOOK.
Obviously when we dress like that itâs because we want Brad Pitts to look. Not every other bot 🤖.
Its really not in the mans power to avoid looking. What if an amazing car passes next to you. a car that looks like a spaceship. won't u stare? or would u look the other way? For a man a beautiful woman in a nice dress with long sexy legs is like this spaceship car. Now some guys overdo it and act creepy and even follow the woman or bother her which in this case no he is just being a jerk. But staring in on itself is just a sign they are humans and admire beauty and are not dead on the inside. i dont think staring to admire is bad if there was no boundries crossed
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