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Why do men feel entitled to stare at women? (Page 2)
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Of course they are not wearing skimpy revealing clothing to be looked at.
They are wearing skimpy revealing clothing so they aren't looked at.
Men don't feel entitled to at all. We just respond to calls of nature is all.
I use binoculars while staring at women to sin harder
I'd rather that cause at least you are making it obvious that you are a creep
Men shouldn't stare women down, just not right.
Well i very rarely get guys staring a tme so when they do it gices me confidence! As long as they dont do it for long times its fine
I hate it cause it happens often
Sods law for finding it eaay to get a guy, im 35 n never been near one
Monalisa77 you are really sweet. I know it and you know you can't be with a non virgin. If you decide on that doctor I hope he values you for your devotion 🙂.
I don't have not looked at girls and it used to annoy them that I always had my face sideways or looking at floor or the wall 🤣
Well, I guess that would be the same entitlement women have for looking at shirtless men for example, especially those who have an attractive physique. But then you ask again, why wear "sexy" or "revealing" clothes in the first place? I doubt that it doesn't have something to with getting attention.
So it's ok for women to do it men but not men on women.
I'm not being pig headed, I'm not a creep starer but I do glance but why wear revealing clothing if. You don't want guys to look or are you just wanting guy who you find attractive to look.
Any straight guy will at least glance subtlety if they see a cleavage, don't make us feel bad, especially when women do it when they see a guy with muscles and a six pick.
Revealing clothing isn't a invitation to look. I often have to wear clothing like that in hot weather or to make it easy to breastfeed
Me tion that go women too then.
I get what you mean though , I do but biolagy wise its hard not too if a woman is showing cleavage. Plus not all women have the excuse you have.
I'm not saying women should cover up to stop men from looking but lust/attraction is lustful attraction.
Unless you have all guys castrated out there they will glance
Men should know better than to lust. Just like the quote from Jesus I put up there. It's not womens job to try to not excit men. It's their job not to stare
Like women are saints, they lust the same after men.
Anyone can look at what they want, if they don't like people looking at their ugly body, don't show it, in fact, I don't look at the ugly bodies of women who dress like bitches, their bodies are quite ugly and they disgust me, they should be put in preyed by visual pollution and exhibitionism for at least a thousand years.
am i the only girl who wears a miniskirt and all guys look at me and 1/2 the women... i'm kind of used to it now but that's what happens... and did you ever hear of girl watching.
Social norms mostly. The guys they work with teach them, only fans models flaunt their stuff in your face all the time, the pretty girl in grade school used it to get you to do something for her, it's in ever magazine. But the more I think about it, it's the best way for a girl to capture a males attention. So I'm sure mother nature designed it that way to capture a mate. He mans use sex appeal it as a way to make money.
My random thoughts.
Its like watching a beautifull landscape. You see something you like and you look at it, simply as that. I dont think this has to do with entitlement to see stuff trough your eyes.
No idea but some r just hot so maybe that? Some girls in my school also stare at football guys haha
How’ve u been can u dm meeeee
I find it creepy to be honest I don't do it.. i usually make eye contact with girls who stare at me until then i avoid looking at anyone
normally its because she is attractive, has big or nice breasts or bum
Must be the bum he likes then😂
I don’t understand the logic of wearing something revealing or sexy and expecting people not to look/stare especially if the people surrounding are wearing the opposite. I’m sensing anger in your question and description but I think it’s misplaced.
Ok, but women are not allowed to stare at men who are shirtless. This goes both ways.
Men have no right to look at women because of how they dress. It's creepy and should be ill
Glancing is fine but staring is just obnoxious, even if she’s dressed sexy.
What if she isn't 😂
@Monalisa77 I mean, glances are inevitable. If no one glances at you, people are going to be accidentally running into you a lot.
And jesus doesn't agree also for women to walk nearly naked on the streets or popping their boobs out in public, be respectful and modest so that you ear the respect of everyone 😏
No he actually doesn't. Modesty is not something that Jesus preaches. That's why he says this
He's a hard-core feminist
As you wish miss apples 😄
If they catch my attention because of their looks I just glance quickly but not stare
I'm not the type to stare. I'll check someone out for brief moment, but that's it.
I don't feel entitled but sometime when a man see a woman that's absolutely like you are we can't help but stare but I try not too
Why wouldn't I be entitled to look at whatever I want? It's like asking why people feel entitled to freedom of speech. As long as we're not hurting anyone or going out of our way, look at anything that's available for the public to see.
You could be hurting someone if you stare cause you are making them feel unsafe and causing them anxiety
I am not a creep I notice butts
We could make someone feel unsafe or cause them anxiety with freedom of speech as well. If we had to stop doing everything when someone becomes anxious, we wouldn't be doing anything. Take veganism for example.
Whats wrong with vegans? Lol
The takeaway from that is that a lot of vegans feel bad about us eating meat, but we're also not changing society for that. Then feeling bad is not our problem.
I'm a vegan and don't even care how others eat 😂
Why are they wearing said sexy and revealing clothes to begin with?
Lots of reasons might be hot or they are working out. Who knows really but lots of reasons to wear something revealing
Because there are hot women out there.
I suppose I could also ask :
Why do women feel entitled to a man's resources?
Womem aren't running around the streets asking men for resources 😂
No shit.
But in the course of dating it comes up sooner or later ; the woman will always expect the man to pay for her stuff - bills , food , debts etc. It comes up sooner or later.
I don't see a issue with doing that in a relationship just like how I'd let my man look at me whenever
Because women are The Creator's Fine Art. Just look with appreciation and not lust.
At least, that's how I feel. Women should be flattered and not threatened or insulted.
Staring is rude in general. If someone stares at me I stare back at them.
On behalf of myself and myself only we are not entitled for that.
We can look wherever we want, if you don't like it then STFU and put on a burqa. Most of you are dressed like hoes and show 99% of your skin on IG anyway.
Showing off online is giving the viewer permission to look
I dont know I hate them for it
Same
No they pretend to hate it because admitting so will give up their "power" to men. Men are very important to women and why would they admit this weakness? Lol
But thankfully such women are rarer than diamonds 🙏💎
@Asad1ONE1 this ain't about power
You hate someone for staring at you, well i hate feminist dictators. You are being melodramatic and over the top.
@DarkLegacy there is no feminisy dictators anywhere. There are creepers staring outside everyday
@Apple1996 The Western world is full of them., as is this site
I hate all the men that stare at me even when I look uncomfortable
No you hate men because of your bad experiences. No inexperienced woman in her right mind would hate men for staring. They'd actually prefer it instead.
I feel so lonely getting stared at and never approached
you're hot tho.
old men should be looking at their wives not me
you get a lot of old guys looking?
Well yeah but I am around a lot of them. I work at a starbucks in a grocery store
Oh nice. Do they leave you tips at least?
they offer but as a giant starbucks, giant doesn't allow us to accept tips
That’s rude. Do you get free coffee at least?
Nope we have to pay
I am either gonna quit or ask for a raise
How long you been working there
end of February
Yep def ask for a raise. Where else are they going to find a cute thic booty girl?
lol we starbucks girls we work there
I'm one among a few cute girls
That is one of the requirements of working at Starbucks. You have to be a cute white girl.
lol no we have a cute Asian lady and a cute black girl
maybe i just live in a racist area.
probably
when i open up a restaurant you can be my front-of-the-house manager.
I would be honored
Why do women feel entitled to walk through the world without guys looking at them? When I go outside I accept the possibility of others starring at me. I hope they don't; but I don't discount the possibility.
But I'm a Creep. https://youtu.be/XFkzRNyygfk?feature=shared
I love to look at beautiful things. Rather it be a meticulously restored muscle car, or an antique rare whatever!
Beautiful women also fall into my love of beauty. Especially when most of the inner workings are exposed!
You don't have a right to tell me I can't stare at whatever the hell I want. I can even record whatever the hell I want in public and it is up to you to create your own privacy.
Why do y'all feel so entitled to this tho? I don't understand. Just cause something is in public doesn't mean you should stare
Because the more people tell me not to do something the more I'm going to do it if I have every right to do it.
I sometimes get people that stare at me too and I just ignore them. It's part of life and if you don't want people looking at you in public then don't go outside.
Literally, I can point my camera inside a police cruiser and look up whatever information is on the laptop that I can see. I can do the same thing to a bank if they have their windows not covered and I can see inside the bank.
And it is all 100% legal.
You cannot trespass my eyes.
Sometimes people can't help going out. It's a part of life
And so is getting looked at. I don't personally just gawk at people but I will if that civil liberty is threatened. Eyes should never be trespassed.
Youve literally no respect for anyone, probably the type wjo would stick a camera on a girl without her permission
If you're going to make a gross straw man at least construct your sentence properly so it looks nice.
I have never put a camera on anybody and that is the false equivalency. That just shows how pressed you are.
Im ill atm
Well u gave me that impression, u have no right to go up to someone n record them if people record things in public they should try to avoid getting into someone s personal space except if ur famous
As they expect it anyway at public events
You literally cannot trespass my eyes and I can look wherever I want for however long I want.
And I don't give a damn what anybody thinks about it because it's legal.
Not to mention the 100 security cameras we walk by daily. I have 360 degree recording on my car. You walk by in in a parking lot you aren't complaining about being recorded by me, the bank's ATM, the 7 garage cameras along the way. Realistically the expectation should be that you're being recorded. Especially since everyone has a camera in their pocket and nobody's scanning the shopping mall to make sure nobody has one pulled out.
@BoopBoopBeep exactly! People are being recorded 24/7 when they are out in public but they have the temerity to complain about somebody looking at them?
Security is only for authorization if u do something wrong, not for people to perv
@Monalisa77 exactly. It's for safety.. not to be a creep
I don't understand this paranoia. Men are at a greater danger at virtually all times and somebody staring at you doesn't mean much. I have people stare at me too.
Men can fight off other men. Women can't fight off men.(unless we have a weapon or something but some of us aren't that prepared). We have reasons to be scared
What makes you think a man is guaranteed to have a chance? What if the guy has a knife? If somebody knows what they are doing with a knife you will get cut even if you are a martial art master, my own Sifu told me so.
And as a woman you can absolutely even the odds through training and arming yourself. Your safety is your responsibility.
If a man fights against another man. It's still a man winning the fight regardless lol
Lmao, what about the vulnerable?
And yes but some places guns/weapons aren't allowed
Regardless, men are still statistically at a greater danger. I am more likely to be hurt severely in my life by another man then you are.
I've never done it on purpose... never! I would stare and stare and stare and not realize it. In my early 40s now, still single, but never fear, there aren't any women anymore to stare at anyways.
Oh yeah, as for dressing sexy, where does it say in the Bible to dress soo revealing, we can almost see your nipples. Women aren't supposed to walk around practically naked.
It says nothing about dressing to revealing
1 Timothy 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
play.google.com/.../details
As for the rest of it...
1 Timothy 2:10-15 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
play.google.com/.../details
Modesty is up the the person themselves tho
He's right! What are you talking about?
Women are basically as naked as society will allow.
Obviously that all comes from male preference.
Us men WANT to see you beautiful women walking around practically naked.
That's why y'all do it even though you deny to the death that it is for men. You are bad liars.
You sexualize yourselves on purpose. You LITERALLY walk around with clothes that reveal every beautiful inch or curvaceous sexuality that drives us men wild.
Pants all up the asscraxk we can see your fupa, pussy lips, entire asscrack. Covered in clothes of course but clothes that show ever centimeter.
Like why deny it? I dpnt get it.
@HiveBee I dress like that for comfort and fashion. Not to be stared at
No you dress like that to be seen by men.
No man is out here trying to show off the literal inside of his asscrack.
Only womennare doing that and you do it because it's what men want to see.
I don't care what you say. You're all full of crap.
@HiveBee so you think women that are gay show off like that for men?
They do it for other women. And i have read and listened to gay women's stories as well as bisexual women.
And from what I read, gay women mirror straight relationships. So one woman is the masculine one and one woman is the feminine one.
The feminine one dresses like that because the masculine one likes her to look sexy.
It's literally the same. Except the masculine woman presents with traditional masculine things such as short hair or loose fitting clothes.
ALL of it is rooted in human sexuality whether you know it or not.
I have even read from bisexual women that they see men as utility, and women as beautiful.
So even for a bi sexual person they see women as objects of beauty and men as having utility.
@HiveBee I'm bisexual and don't see it that way. Neither do any of the other bisexual girls that I know
@HiveBee I'm fem and only would ever get with another fem girl. Not attracted to the masculine type
Even if it's hot outside 100°F, women can dress cool an be fully cloths, don't need to have tons of cleavage.
I like your quote from Jesus. However, men first need Jesus before admonishing them about other stuff. Otherwise, they could just say it's a free country.
Because we are entitled to stare at whatever we want for any reason lol it's a public place
But I do try not to stare but it still happens sometimes
let's ask the other way around. do you wanna make legislation trying to controll where people look in public?
No people should just have basic respect
you're not entiteled to respect. nobody is.
Everyone is entitled to basic respect. There is no reason to be rude or mean to someone unless they give you a reason to. You don't see to many people out on the street just being a asshole to every person. Most likely because they have some respect on a basic level
nope. you're wrong. you have no right for people being friendly to you.
It's not about being friendly. It's about not being rude
show me the law that says "being rude" is illegal.
Not all bad things are made into laws. It's up to you to make yourself into a decent person regardless of the law
I think some guys can’t help staring at a beautiful woman. 🤷🏾♀️
because as long as we don't touch we can look.
what connection to jesus and lust?
that verse 5, 29 is RIGHT BY 5,27. look at the section and chill out.
Maybe same reason why women objectify men as wallets. A lot of women act entitled that it’s a man’s job to pay for everything.
Okay but we don't expect all random men to pay for us
Why do women wearing provocative clothing? Why do they want to draw attention from men? If you don't want us staring at you stop wearing revealing clothes that show you're body parts. Jesus also said do not cause temption
I shouldn't have to change my clothing style because men can control themselves
Basicly you said this...
Nah even If he's hot it's not nice to stare
If a lady wears revealing clothes peopl think it's trashy. Girls stare at guys 2. I've asked the question 2 girls n they said yes. I've also seen how girls r.
You really have to understand that it's more like a reflex than an intentional action
Lol, don't dress like a stripper and maybe you won't be stared at like one.
Or maybe men should stop acting like the world is a strip club
The fact of the matter is that you have zero expectation of privacy in public. So if you show off your tits and ass, expect to get some looks.
Otherwise don't go outside, or wear a burka.
I show off my boobs often for breastfeeding and I will definitely tell off any creep that tries to look at me. Could care less If I'm in public. We all gotta go out. Can't stay inside forever
Tell em' off all you'd like.
Isn't going to change the fact that you will get looks.
are you kidding?
of course thats why they wear sexy clothes
id leave jesus out of it for manifold reasons
white chicks are wondrous.
it would be criminal not to get an eyeful.
and they know it too
We can stare at anything. Why do chicks feel entitled to wear what they want and NOT be stared at?
Now being leered, followed or catcalled is wrong.
I’ve seen women stare at men they find appealing and bite their lip or have this sexual look of desire, for real lets stop the bias and double standard bullshit, sorry im just keeping it 100.
If YOU saw something that was gorgeous, wouldn't YOU wanna stare at it for a while?
More importantly why do women feel entitled to look at Men.
We don't lol
Ummmmmmmmmmm. What about that comedian you kept on talking about like a month ago. He is white with abs and isn't funny? Women look at guys and will comment with no shame at alll.
Same with men. This is absulotly even in my observation. Women will comment on guys like there cattle. There toxic human beings on both sides.
He gave consent to be looked at by posting pics online
A girl gave consent to wearing revealing clothes when she goes out in public.
Its hard to argue these points. But I know women do it just as much as men, its entirely even, I would say women do it more in some cases. But its even in my book.
If you are going to dress a certain way, then deal with the stares. What do you think is gonna happen if you wear revealing clothing?
Modesty is advocated for both men and women. A man should lower his gaze and a woman should dress 👗 in proper clothes too and vice versa
If you don't want no one to look then don't dress like that. You women have just about every freedom a man has. Now you're try to take away our freedom to look. Jesus Christ!
Would u look at a woman who wasn't dressed like that?
@Monalisa77 I gonna look no matter what she got on.
I don’t care if men look at me. Looking doesn’t hurt anyone.
Bad parenting.
Omg for real no one taught them better
If you're out in public, people are entitled to stare.
😂Ridiculous
I guess they have eyes and use them, separating the genders would be the only solution or ripping out their eyes or filling them with bleach
Oh the bleach idea sounds lovely. Jesus would be into it
And it came be done anywhere
Even Jesus didn't agree with women wear revealing clothes barely cover butt stop being hypocritical u annoying me. Get over it!
I don't know but seems to me that look alone doesn't hurt everyone.
It can definitely hurt someone
you know that a cat may look at a king...
Why not? Staring has not been criminalized as yet.
Why would it have to be legal just for people not to do it. Better to have some morals
This has nothing to do with morals here. Perhaps on your planet it does.
You girls should should stop being so damn fuckin sexy all the time 😩
Its true we are too sexy
Im not tho😂
@Monalisa77 lol