Is it seen as desperate if a woman invites a guy out to coffee/lunch, or makes the first move? Especially if it’s on social media and they never met?

[Anonymous]

[Berethor]

It's feminist, and if you wait for the man to make first move then he might not notice you.

[spartan55]

You girls are so backwards about 'appearing desperate'. You constantly stress about this in situations that don't apply. THEN when they actually are being desperate somehow it never comes up.

[Anonymous]

It is perfectly fine. I assume he will recognize you.

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes.

[Pterodon]

Not at all