Do guys think it's weird or desperate for a girl to message a guy first on Facebook who you've never spoken to before?

[Anonymous]

If a girl was to start talking to you on Facebook first would you think she's desperate?

No

yes

It's cute

It's creepy

Updates

+1 y

They know of each other's existence.

[LittleSally]

I guess they're used to it... the hot ones anyways...

Facebooks as a way of communication -as all internet chat rooms and social networking sites- is full of **ap. I don't and will never understand this desperation for them and the need to flee the real world.

[Lexilovesya]

She's probably just bored and wants to start talking to a stranger.

[Planetoid]

If they know of each other's existence IRL but just haven't spoken to each other ("um hi, don't you go to the ABC gym?") I think it's OK. If you just met them through Facebook I think that's just weird.

[Corsair777]

1) Facebook is for losers.
2) Getting contacted my strangers on a friends website - wtf? This isn't PoF.
3) No.

[randomusername442]

no it's nice to talk to new people and it makes a guy feel better if they are ones being messaged first

[Theguyoverthere]

It's fine. He may think she's just trying to up her friend count at first maybe but after some talk who knows

[Daveduck]

yea its nice to be spoken to first. Girls always talk about themselves and dont care about the guy and expect them to make all the moves.

[Soren]

Actually it happened to me regulary :D it depends what u say in ur first message :D
But in general i like it :)

[p0rtis26]

Creepy, if I have never met or spoken to the person, creepy

[kenken123]

I hope more girls would do that. It's tiring sometimes to always have to initial.

[Qwazihomo]

To be honest if you are at least somewhat attractive it would be fine.

[blondfrog]

I don't think that is weird I think that would be cool. :)

[Anonymous]

I get it a bit, and if I like her profile i'm ok with it.

[Anonymous]

I am a bit worried that my Prince Albert might scare girls off, because of the size of the jewellery

[sadsadboy]

yesss
why won't they do that?

[__4G__]

no my friend... am cool as long she's real

[marquisao]

srry I meant to say no