Is he playing headgames with me?

[Anonymous]

He blocked me on Facebook, than he rang my phone number this morning while I was asleep than he kept me as a Snapchat friend but I deleted him off TikTok and instagram he didn’t block me on any other apps I feel his playing headgames.

[Juicyred921]

Definitely sounds like games to me. He may have blocked you on Facebook because there are things he doesn’t want you to know. Whether it’s personal information, other girls he’s talking to. I dono. Snapchat is easier because there’s little personal info and chats/photos usually automatically delete. Good for people keeping secrets. You can try asking him. But pay attention to how he answers. If he’s giving you excuses that don’t seem right, then he’s definitely hiding something.

[Asker]

He denied blocking me says what is going on here and denied calling my number said that weird. Than readded me on Facebook said I’m unblocked that he fixed it do you think his hiding something?

[Juicyred921]

Ahh. The deny and “that’s weird” excuse. It’s hard yo believe he “accidentally “ blocked you on Facebook. Did you ever post on his Facebook page or comment on something that might elude to you guys being close? Dos his Facebook page look different than before? Like you don’t see photos or posts that you were able to see before?

[Asker]

I’ve Never commented on his Facebook or haven’t tagged him in anything when him and I online dated him earlier on this year we kept it off social media. I see he has over 400 Facebook friends

[Juicyred921]

Have you met in person?

[Asker]

Not yet we would Video call, so I know he isn’t fake he lives near my sister.

[Juicyred921]

How far is he from you?

[Asker]

One hour

[Asker]

50 mins* almost one hour

[Juicyred921]

Why haven’t you two met up on person yet?

[Asker]

Only started talking to him in February he plans to meet me next month as normal friends as I ended the situationship with him told him I just want normal friends because he told me he wasn’t ready for serious relationship

[Asker]

That he finds relationships hard to be in

[Juicyred921]

I think starting out as friends is a great idea. You can really get to know someone without too much pressure. Just remember, you’re just friends, so there’s no commitment to each other to be exclusive. He may be talking to other girls and doesn’t want you to know. Some people that say they aren’t ready for relationship, just like playing the field. They like their options open. So, just be friends, feel things out. Try not to get too attached right now. Don’t focus all your energy on to him. If things keep going, and he sees what a wonderful person you are, things will come together in time. Don’t try to rush it. Be friends and enjoy life. Trust me. I was in a similar situation. I understand the confusion. I wish someone would have gave me this advice back then. And I hope I would have actually listened to it. Lol Just don’t focus to much on it. Live and enjoy your life. Take care of yourself. Always put yourself first. I know what happens when you put too much energy into someone that you’re not sure what they want or feel or what their intentions are. If his feelings for you are strong and true, he won’t be able to fight it for long. If not, at least you won’t be wasting energy going crazy with confusion over him.

[Asker]

Yeah true thanks for letting me know that men can say they not ready because they want keep their options open and yeah I’m also focusing on myself not just this guy. I’m interested in seeing where things go but when we were in a online relationship a while back he would call other girls beautiful which made me doubt him does he count as a friend if I never meet him in person as to me his a random.. guy

[Juicyred921]

He’s a friend if you feel like he’s a friend. Despite never meeting in person. But you gotta ask yourself, what is a friend? What qualifies someone as being your friend? The answer is sometimes different for different people. Always trust your gut. And just know, every person that comes into your life is there to either teach us or reach us. Just make the best decisions for you. Like anything in life, if it doesn’t bring you joy, knowledge, comfort, happiness, or love… then let it go.

[Asker]

That true

[FreyaRed]

Childish games.

[Asker]

I’m just ignoring him

[VikingWarLord]

He knows he has you on a collar and leash and can tug at you anytime he wants

[Asker]

Just like a dog going to it’s bone

[Shootaload]

Wasting your time don't follow his little boy a.. up

[Blues36]

I think you guessed right

[Asker]

Yeah I found out he was being dishonest who he was I discovered his real name

[Blues36]

you did a great job, congratulations

[Asker]

Thanks I had a cyber relationship with him for 5 days we didn’t end up meeting up but never meet him in person he didn’t tell me his real name only the nickname

[Blues36]

if you want we can talk a bit about it, maybe you can dm me

[Asker]

Are you able to direct message me

[Blues36]

sorry 1 xper, i followed for now, i will write tomorrow :)

[Asker]

That’s okay

[Blues36]

see you :)

[Asker]

Bye for now talk later :)

[serious]

Yes these are mind games.

[Asker]

Why do men do that

[serious]

They are just immature, just to see your reaction. Of course there are women who play mind games as well so both genders do this.

[Asker]

Very true I still have him on Snapchat but i deleted him off Instagram got rid of TikTok. I just ignored him when he rang me after being blocked on Facebook does that mean I’m not giving him the reaction he wants?

[serious]

Yes by ignoring him you are not giving him the reaction he wants. Correct.

[spartan55]

Okay great.. who is he?

[Asker]

A guy I meet on instagram that I had a Internet
Relationship with for 5 days I found out his real name he only goes by his nickname he lives near by my sister but never meet him in person he isn’t my ex

[spartan55]

"a relationship for five days"...😂😂😂Sounds like elementary school.

[Asker]

He told me he didn’t block me or didn’t ring me says what is going on here,? Maybe he got hacked dunno it was a cyber one for 5 days he ended it because he wasn’t ready and said it was rushed 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Yeah sounds like a bloody joke..

[spartan55]

Why do you even care? Stop playing games and find a real guy you were can really meet.

[Asker]

I just ended the online situationship. With him Because it isn’t what I’m looking for..

[spartan55]

'online situationship' good Lord

[gag37627]

That's teenage girl there. Not a guy

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he was, is he an ex?

[Asker]

I had a online relationship with him for 5 days over a month ago, we didn’t meet up never meet him in real life he lives near my sibling. I don’t think his a ex

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[Asker]

What is he?

[Opinion Owner]

Immature.

[Asker]

Yes so he isn’t my ex?

[Grapessss]

Yes, he doesn’t know what he wants just ignore him

[In_Trance]

You both are

[brooke233]

Better to block him