Guys, How do you tell a guy you like he needs to lose weight for you to date him?

[Anonymous]

How do approach it? I've never told him anything about his weight but thats the reason I've not given any forward

[Summeroflove]

I don’t change for anyone. Women who want me to change aren’t worth my time. Sure we can all improve.

Women who have high standards for men but low standards for themselves. This is exactly what a lot of guys think.

She isn’t rich, she doesn’t want to be a stay at home mother, she doesn’t want to take care of the house or do all the hours work. But she wants to be spoiled and treated like a queen. She wants all this body positivity for her. But she’s always wanting me to be more cleaned up and loose weight.

She’s not a virgin. She lets men sleep with her. But in a serious relationship she wants to wait.

So… A lot of decent men. Just move on and find someone else. But men who just want sex. That’s all they can really get out of that kind of woman so that’s what they do.

Good men and good women and vice versa… If you make men jump through all these hoops for you but you just want take be a princess… Most men are gonna move on

[Asker]

I work, he doesn't he's also younger than me by about 7 years, I am a virgin... We're also of different religions but thats not it we get along really welll, but im a very petite person he's a very big guy compared to me, i can just imagine him suffocating me. Men don't like fat women either thats just life... people don't like obese people you get away with being skinny all the time. In relationships people need attraction and i can definitely say if he lost some of the weight he'd be an ideal guy for me.

[Summeroflove]

Asker. If you’re it into him. Just say no…. Maybe one day if it’s meant to be it will be.

If you don’t want someone where they’re at. Just say no.

[admles]

You don't lol.

Can you imagine if a guy made a thread asking how to tell a girl he likes she needs to lose weight for him to date her? He'd be crucified!

[Asker]

That's why I've came here to ask if there's in anyyy wayy i could tell him this without telling him this.. I've never told him anything about his weight or commented on it or any of the sort.

I know when i was in a relationship with someone in my past when he started letting himself go that started to become a turn off for me. Attraction is a huge thing in relationships

[In_Trance]

You don't