He say he does not care with whom I am or what I am doing but he already 2 times called me when he heard and I am with other man. Why?

[Deimy]

[Anonymous]

It's possible that the guy is saying that he doesn't care with whom you are or what you are doing as a way to distance himself from any potential emotional attachment or commitment. However, his actions of calling you when he hears that you're with another man may suggest that he does care and is feeling jealous or possessive.

It's important to remember that jealousy and possessiveness are not healthy behaviors in a relationship, and can be a sign of insecurity or lack of trust. If you're feeling uncomfortable or uncertain about the situation, it may be helpful to communicate your feelings and expectations clearly, and to set boundaries around what you're comfortable with.

It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health, and to seek support from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor if you're feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about the situation.

Remember that respectful and equitable relationships are based on mutual respect, trust, and communication, and involve a willingness to share responsibilities and support each other's goals and aspirations. If the guy is unable or unwilling to respect your boundaries and priorities, it may be necessary to reassess the relationship and determine the best course of action moving forward.

[OlderAndWiser]

You can't insist on understanding his behavior but you can try to understand your own. Why are you talking to an ex?