He said he wants pur first date to be a in a low key area? why?

[Anonymous]

maybe he doesn’t want us to bumb into people that we know?

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[FilmGuy93]

How do women read so much into this stuff? The guy wants to have a chilled first date with you.

[Asker]

Why?

[FilmGuy93]

Before I answer that, I want to hear your answer to a question, so I can know a little bit more about your mindset. What do you think the purpose of going on a date is?

[Asker]

It is the get to know each other. He want us to pick an area where there’s a lower risk bumbing into people that we know.

[FilmGuy93]

Did he actually tell you that he doesn’t want to run into people he knows, or is that your speculation?

[Asker]

He suggested area to me and said that it was good area because it’s low key. That’s what got me wondering

[FilmGuy93]

So it's your speculation, not something he said?

Well, then I'd say it sounds like he wants to try to get to know you in a place that is more conducive to getting to know you.

[Asker]

by the way was this flirty comment in your opinion. I tood him I haven’t gone to that place before. He said” I haven’t gone there either. It seems like we’re going to try it first time together

[FilmGuy93]

That's somewhat flirty, yeah

[Asker]

Really :D?

[FilmGuy93]

Are you intentionally trying to let your insecurities ruin your relationship with this guy before things get started?

Have a little faith in yourself

[likeag6]

He’s a coward.

Low-key, does that mean not a busy area of somewhere away from his hometown/ place of work

if he doesn’t want to be seen with you in public I think it suggests that he doesn’t see u seriously and only as a ‘secret’

[Wise4myage]

That's a good hunch on your part, and he probably thinks their is less distractions.

[Asker]

by the way why wouldn’t he want us to bump into people that we know?

[Wise4myage]

Distractions.