Why does he want to make out after the first date?

[lamuñekita]

i still see this guy as a friend. he treats me super nice but i don’t have feelings for him yet.

i made this clear and he said he’ll try and win over my confidence.

he even declared his love for me after like 3 days of knowing each other.

is this moving too fast? who even makes out with someone on the second date if you want something serious? don’t those things just happen naturally in the moment?

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also. the dates i’ve had with him kinda sucked like i barely spoke to him the whole day he would just touch me up and have me on his arm

[bowenw]

He is clearly moving too fast by declaring his love for you after only 3 days of knowing you. I suspect he is hoping to make out with you and have sex as soon as possible. He may be playing you or hoping you will fall for him.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s too fast. Why don’t you have feelings for him yet tho? After dating you only see him as a friend

[lamuñekita]

i was interested but not “in love” like he was with me. or supposedly. also he gave me strong friend vibes since the dates we have had have only been with his friend group. he’s tall and quite attractive but i don’t know what i feel yet. i’m not playing around with him, i made it clear to him about how i don’t know what i feel yet and he says he’s gonna try and win me over.

[BarryLiverstone]

He’s not in love. He’s saying that because he thinks that’s what you want to hear and it’s his way of being romantic. If you haven’t spent time one on one then why not suggest a date for just you two and then get a chance to talk to him and find some deeper connections?

[BarryLiverstone]

Also he made out with you because you allowed him to. He was excited to kiss you and you didn’t reject him.

[bneano]

That is a red flag.. He's using you. Just let him know that you don't feel comfortable and maybe even stop going out with him.

[LunarEclipse433]

Seems a little too fast for the both of you. Each person is different and handle things at their own pace