Are there men out there who arnt immature?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't seem like it.

It doesn't seem like there are much men out there that will tell a lady he likes/loves her without a screen in the way or tell her his feelings without any games

[MrOracle]

Sure there are - but those men have standards - standards that most women today have zero interest in even learning about, much less meeting. This is not a personal attack - I don't know anything about you, so I couldn't begin to judge you - I'm just making a generalization.

Even if this doesn't apply to you, you have to recognize that LOTS of women are NOT "relationship material" and that MOST women are not picking men based on their morals, values, and life-goals, but rather on their looks and status. That would be like a bank hiring money-handlers not based on their educations and clean criminal backgrounds and clean drug tests, but rather based on their tattoos, and then being surprised when money goes missing.

So, to summarize: if a woman wants to be taken seriously as a relationship partner, she needs to be "relationship material", AND she needs to choose (and vet) a man based on his morals, values, and life-goals as the PRIMARY criteria. If both of those things aren't true, then she can't possibly expect to be taken seriously as a relationship partner, or expect quality outcomes. That would be like defunding the police and expecting crime to drop.

[VikingWarLord]

We know the "game" now, it's all over the internet. You love us hot bad boy jerks better anyways, not the beta simps who kiss your azz with lame compliments HEY HUN YOUR PRETTY, YOUR GORGEOUS, HOW CAN I WORSHIP MY GODDESS TODAY, etc.. etc..

You're laughin' because you know I'm DAAMMN right

[Asker]

I love the simps and the players babe. But there's a player I want. Just to fuck mostly and he disappeared why

[Anarcamus]

I think this might be reflective of the men you pick and potentially ignoring the actions of them as well.

[Asker]

It almost feels like everyman I pick is almost like that. Or at least the ones I truly want

[Anarcamus]

well, remember that you can't read minds here.
I once had it said that our partners can be a reflection of ourselves, if we don't actually communicate then really we pick out the behaviors WE have in their behaviors the most.
Always try to take stock of situation without your feelings.

[Anonymous]

No we’re all immature that’s why we have a lot more fun in life than women. We don’t take everything serious.

[Asker]

That's actually kind of how I am.

[Shamalien]

if a man is certain you feel the same way about him he will say that to you. If your words and actions make it unclear if you will reciprocate then he may say nothing

[OfMiceandMen]

Sure there are, perhaps you need to step outside your regular life/circles to meet them. It takes effort on your part, they can only meet you halfway.

[TheFlak38]

What a tragic irony women calling men immature and then they watch dumb romantic movies like Notebook and Twilight and fall in love with the male protagonist.

[Asker]

Yea it's a fantasy and they are in for a rude awakening

[MementoMori777]

Not many women worth saying it too, whoever gets offended by this, it means you are one of those women

[mommymommymommy]

I told a girl how I felt, and she not only didn't answer me, she blocked me

[Ben487]

Sure, I know lots of single mature men who would love to have girlfriends, most of the guys I work with are single men.

[Ben487]

If I take it back to my college mates only about a quarter of them got married.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Actually that type of guy is common.
Most of them get ignored by women though.

[Anonymous]

There indeed "much men" our there who are mature and don't play games, but they are all with higher quality women.

[Asker]

so you're saying because I'm not getting asked out I'm not high quality? What's considered higher quality

[Opinion Owner]

Wait, is your problem that men are not asking you out, or that you think men are not asking you out because THEY are immature? Help me out here.

[Asker]

Lol I'm delusional and think a guy is actually into me when he's got million of other women after him. I just feel this way because he's been sort of watching me for a few years possibly on & off. He now fell of the face of the earth and disappeared. I hate it. But I'm not worthy. I do look like every girl out here with a bbl and big tits fuck it.

[Opinion Owner]

You might have better luck getting help here if you didn't start with "all men are immature", when obviously that is not the source of your problems.

[Asker]

What is the source of my problems?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, men won't ask you out. There are a lot of possible reasons for that, but men being immature isn't one of them.

[Asker]

Maybe I am for sure ugly damn

[Anarcamus]

I think you might be overlooking the advice being given here.
Have you taken the time to look at yourself fully?
Not sure physically...

[Asker]

@Anarcamus I am a beautiful soul. I know that for a doubt. I do have a protective layer especially when it comes to women when they first meet me are extremely aggressive and try to provoke me. I don't respect that. I'm not perfect and am always ready to improve

[Asker]

Without a doubt** lol sorry

[Anarcamus]

First off, why are they trying to provoke you if they love you?
Second I am slightly confused here, are you a girl dating girls, you asked about guys but then talk about meeting women in this post?

It does sound like you maybe need to take some time to step outside yourself and review, those signs of immaturity could actually be a way of projecting. Maybe not, but still important to consider.

Each person is unique, some people are guarded for very specific reasons and if you can make them feel safe they will open up. This requires you to not be judgmental, even if you don't like what you here.

[Asker]

@Anarcamus oh, I only spoke on girls because for some reason they hate me. I'm not one to keep girls as friends. I would love to someday but most are very much catty women. I don't have time for or know how to be friends with women like that. I am into dating men only. You asked about if I took the time to look at myself. Everyday I do and focus on how I can be better for myself to myself and my loved ones. But first and foremost self respect is #1

[Anarcamus]

I understand what you are saying, but what about looking at yourself in regards to those men?
just encouraging you here. If you are willing to share.

[Asker]

@Anarcamus yea. I mean honestly I see myself as special like everyone else but I know love is very hard to come by when the next girl looks better than me. I'm someone who doesn't wait on somebody not unless I really like them. Long story short though I was never one to care for me. Especially players. Unless again there is something. When men come to me I use them just like they use me. When I leave they get mad I'm not chasing after them lol it's ridiculous. But now someone may indeed have my heart. We are perfect strangers but we've always been attracted to eachother. For years. I never really chased after him and he's just replied to my advances and compliments. I'm with someone I don't think is necessarily right for me. It's a mess

[Reorx]

Plenty, just don't be surprised when they move on if you leave them confused or play games. Probably won't meet them at a bar or club.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Immature women get immature men.

[Anonymous]

They are becoming rare.