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always lookinh at you even from afar... that's what i noticed about my ex ( i was his crush ever since high school) when i was in college. i am in the school quadrangle for my PE and my classmate would tease me that my ex is lookinh at me. i look at him and there he was.
i used to wear just plain tshirt and jeans before and my wallet is that men's wallwr penshoppe wallet i put it on the back pocket of my jeans and he keep gettinh my walket
but the most obvious is when he tells yoy about it. my ex tried a lot. at times he was angry and call me feeling beautiful at one point he pulled my hair in the library because i just keep ignorinh him. he asked my friends to help him and so my friends keep tellinh me to give him a chance but the thing is i don't feel anything no spark nothing that's why i ignore. i don't want him to soend energy and money when i already know my answer he is actually hamdsome and funny he is very eitty and a vocaliat on a band but ifk i don't feel anything special so i was just beinb honest, he also volunteered durinh enrollment and durinh enrollment i am always forced to interact and ge offered that i don't have to fall in line because it's a super long line dirinh enrollment which i didn't accept because i find it ynfair. also accepting favor when i know the reason behind when i really don't feel something special is cruel but he didn't gwt it and one time after exam he said he wannq walk me home and declined he said he will jump on the buildinh to which i bitchly replied i could even help push him and i just lost it i keep cursing him. i try so bad to minimize my voice but it is still can be heard since i am already so angry. i am hungry, thirsty, no sllep, and my smart classmates are discussing their answers and i cannot hear my answers it feels like i'm takinh a different tests. i really hate students who discuss their answers after exams in my mind i just wanna scrram at them to shut the fuck up so when my ex approach i wasn't able to control myself anymore because i nicely declined no but still insist and so i kinda shame him in public despite tryinh so hard to control myself but he still continues after that incident but i'm feeling so much guilt so i texted him for the first time if i remember correctly and allowed him to accompany me during lunch and walkinh home but i still don't feel anything so i avoid him again... but i think his efforts were not in vain because when we became in a relationship ( eventually i feel something and it develop) i was faithful and never gave him up until the very last. he keep tellinh me i'd leave him and would say even if i cheat he will still be with me which i find funny because i would never cheat. aldo i don't like jumping from onecrelationship to another and i love hatd.
Does he avoids eye contact? Nervous around u?
1. he'll get erections
2. he'll start breathing heavily
3. he'll forget his name
4. spit will roll down his face
5. he'll comb his hair every 2 minutes
6. he'll walk with a limp
Good answer
Comb his hair with fingers? And adjust his shirt?
Hey #1 and 6 are your fault.. you made that happen
@dinojames22 lol
I saw your profile pic and you looks so good in short shorts. Nice body
I was just going to answer "the drool on his face", but your #4 beat me to it.
You are using the words " strongly attracted " , keep that in mind because those words are important..
1. Figitting around trying to hide the tent he is packing in his Levis
2 . Constantly trying to touch and maintain eye contact while saying stuff like "gee thats great "
3 . Asking for you number.
4 . Checking his hair.
5 . Running off every 15 minutes to masturbate while holding your photo on a phone.
6 . Selecting attire carefully.
7 . He has washed his hair every time you meet.
There is lots more but thats not a bad start.
On average guys are not particularly attentive, many lack the emotional intelligence. When he routinely takes the time to check up on you, that's a big sign. It either means he really cares about you or he thinks about you often.
Another huge one is when he wants to spend a lot of intimate alone time with you.
You can also test the water by sending teases his way or initiate physical contact, pay close attention to his reaction, guys usually get unusually flustered when they're into you.
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This depends on the guy. But definitely ways to be pretty accurate. Some guys are more nervous and others are more confident even over confident. When someone smiles.
Most people smile or wink at people they find attractive. This can be done on purpose or totally subconscious
Well, lingering stares and eye contact with smiling, but if he's shy or thinks she's out of his league that goes out of the window. He may actually avoid looking at her completely. Men adjust their behavior a lot. Actually one good sign that you mean something is in those behavioral cracks. If he's kind, confident and smiling to everyone else but keeps his face/mannerisms under stricter control with you while talking to you, while still being friendly as with others, or the opposite, he might actually like you and he's more self-conscious of his behavior. But everyone's different and YMMV.
He'll show interst explicitly.
Men don't have the luxury of fixing their hair and sending mating signals.
If we want something done we need to do it ourselves.
Of course some men are shy and would be attracted without doing anything and unfortunately you'll never know who they are as their behavior is largely the same
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@ZackBan and when they stares at a girl and doesnot look away. What does it means?
May be
I saw him staring and i ignored him but whenever i look he was staring.
So there’s this guy I like and I believe he likes me. He would talk to her try and get to know her. Tease her a bunch even in a group setting. Looks at her and looks down at the ground. Smiles and laughs. Clumsy. Always helpful and would want to show off his skills, example flying an airplane. At least this is what my male friends have told me about the guy I like is doing. Makes sense to me.
U r lucky girl
I wouldn’t say lucky. I’m hoping I pass my test on Sunday so I can ask him out. But he is doing all these things. Some times having a couple male friends is always a good thing. Can be a wing man so if you have these questions then you can always turn to them and they will give you honesty. I hope this helps girl!
He asks her out.
Anything else doesn't necessarily mean anything but women love to think men give these kinds of signals because women give them.
It never occurs to them that men can't read a girls signals because we don't do signals.
I think if a guy likes you he will give you both his time and his resources. That does not mean he will buy you a diamond ring, but if he works minimum wage, he will walk to Tim Hortons to buy you a cup of coffee twice a month.
Usually if he Stares at Her whenever he sees Her.
Not avoiding eye contact?
And what does this means when a guy stares into a girl's eyes and doesnot look away?
One guy was continously staring at me , even though i ignored him but still he was staring at me.
I dont know why he was continously staring at me.
As a socially awkward guy, looks or anything nonphysical are things I do around everyone, because I have severe anxiety. HOWEVER, I do tend to try physical touches with girls whom I like. Subtlety is out the window for me.
not "signs and hints" but by speaking. admittedly not phrase "i am attracted" but words the conversing on topics that interest her indicate he is attracted to her.
He pays a lot of attention to her, and takes an interest in the things she likes to do.
Fix his hair around her?
Adjust his shirt?
Avoids eye contact?
Yes indeed.
Have u fix your hair around your crush?
I have in the past
So u did it while looking at her OR whenever she was looking at you? Which one?
Both
I realized that I have a specific habit when I’m attracted to a girl, I will always take a quick glimpse at her ankles lol
That’s why you shouldn’t think that there is standard behavior for all men.
Anything else u do when you are around a girl you have crush on?
You avoid eye contact?
He always wants to be around u and wants ur company
Exactly. We wanna see that face, that smile, just her in general. So we can have excuses to talk to her.
So you guys stares at her from far?
We do like women do. We find someone we are attracted to, and look at them. Maybe hoping to get you to notice that we are. But then there's creepy.
One guy was continously staring at me , even though i ignored him but still he was staring at me.
They are always invading your personal space.
He is around her a lot, communicates with her a lot, talks about her a lot. It's usually obvious.
If he goes out of his way to speak to you then he is interested.
He's up her ass constantly! Trying to get her to hang out instead of being on the goddamn phone all the time. Maybe creepin outside of where she stays and peep a deep clip while she sleep.
The most certain one you can rely on, is there is a tent in his pants.
A very strong clue would be a bulge in his britches!
Guys get boner around every girl.
Wrong! These two couldn't cause a boner if they bent over and begged for it!
He always seems to show up where she will be. I don't believe in coincidences.
Guys don’t tend to “drop hints” like girls do. If a guy likes you, he will ask you out directly unless he is very shy.
When I see my crush, my mind goes crazy. She suddenly becomes the only thing I am currently worried about.
The eye contact. The way they look at you says it all most of the times.
If they wanted to they would do it. they would text back they would care basically
I dont think all situations are as simple as this
@Monalisa77 you are missing the point and not understanding. if men care enough they will show the effort especially in the terms of attraction, if they show barely any effort in attraction then they dont care that much
But what if they think the woman doesn't care enough? Didn't put in the same effort?
Check out my qs. If u think u know the answer to my situation be my guest lol
@Monalisa77 honey, im sorry you are in denial. its quite obvious, you love someone but they won't reciprocate what you do. let them go. nothing is obvious or show’s attraction besides asking the person out. dont keep urself in denial or delusion, come around to yourself and love yourself first
Why do they keep giving me the eye then? If they knew i liked them and didn't feel the same they should just continue to ignore me. I didn't show them i liked them at the time yet they did loads.
I only feel that way now because of the way theyve looked at me, its not just a blink, they look for however long theyre standing next to me
@Monalisa77 because men love to lead women on and act like they love them because they are “charmers” yes they should leave you alone if they aren't really interested. I dont think thats a good indication that they like you, infact thats creepy
He did that to start with.. He charmed me into going on a walk with him. But i did something that put him off and when he said to remind him, i didn't..
He gave me a really long look at my lips at the time after i did that thing, he didn't go super cold on me till i didn't go up to him About the walk, i was too shy. I sent him an apology message and now both times I've seen him he's staring again
If he knew i liked him from guessing, but i didn't show him it Why would hr continue to charm me And give me attention, guys like to feel attractive and cared about too. Especially divorced men
The way he talks to you the way he looks at you and his actions
How he look?
@Iron_man have you ever move your fingers through hair around your crush or show off infront of her?
So cute.
Sweaty palms, Boners, Stuttering, and Staring
Avoid eye contact or prolonged eye contact?
So guy get boners around his crush? Or around every girl?
Both.
Prolonged is a dead giveaway
But Avoiding eye contact means he saw you and is trying to steal glances when you look away
Around his crush.
If we really find you attractive we’re gonna want to have sex with you
Remember female bodies were made to attract males
So guys get boner around a girl he feels attraction to? And doesnot get boner around every girl?
@AnusNdaPainus reply please
I feel like I’m gonna need to explain the difference between a woman we want to have sex with and a woman we actually like
Every straight man is strongly attracted to every woman, you're nothing special.
Unlike women, men are pretty obvious with showing attraction
They will keep on staring at you and they will try to get closer to you
Staring into your eyes?
One guy was continously staring at me , even though i ignored him but still he was staring at me.
I think he was just a flirt.
@MackBoy have you ever comb your hair with your fingers near your crush? Or brag or show off?
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imagine If we spent all this time asking questions on how to earn more money...
He makes time for you. He also goes out of his way to talk to you.
If he was that attracted to her he would approach her
Women communicate with signals, signs and hints, men suck at this form of communication.
He is carving her name in his forehead. lol
There are so many different signs but I think the main one and most important is that he will tell you.
His body language for sure! Either he flirts with you, around you a lot, compliments you, or makes the first move.
If a guy makes time for you in his world when he doesn’t have to because of school or work then he likes you.
I’ll occasionally glance at her butt. I’m not sure if that’s something she would notice though. 🤔
Pays attention to you and wants to spend time with you!
Whenever you see him, he has a Randy 🌭
Plenty of eye contact is a good indicator. Long looks not quick glances.
he look at her a lot and look away
One guy was continously staring at me , even though i ignored him but still he was staring at me. @mattclark242 i dont know what he wants.
I don't know maybe he like you or think you look good. I not sure maybe he just board. sometime guys show off for girls. I use to then my crush did not like me so I just gave up on her and move on.
Have u ever move your fingers through your hair near your crush and adjust your shirt while looking at her?
@mattclark242 there is a guy who brags a lot infront of me , i think guys show off infront of every girl not only around their crush.
Not that I remember no but maybe I did I forget
ok maybe they do. I am not sure. I do not think I move my fingers through your hair but maybe I did. I use try jump jump over chairs and give cookies to my crush. also try fine out where she was in school each day.
Thats sweet. Nobody did this to me.
Ok it be nice if someone did. I think she just want me to leave her alone. now day girls want me buy them thing or just support them financially. It sad. I miss the old day when I use come up with crazy ideals.
Not every girl same. I dont want financially help.
Who knows? Sometime he doesn’t look interested but look interested
Stares a lot, smiles a lot at her.
Probably a boner
Guys get boner around every girl.
Well, in my case my cock gets really hard
The way he looks at you. Lol.
Talking, giving her attention
He has a huge boner everytime he's around you.
Guys get boner around every girl they see, so its not something specific
But we save the big ones for the girls we love. Little ones happen a lot, but when we find one we are really attracted to we become as hard as a hickory log! Give it a hardy whack and if he doesn't get a limp di*k he's your true love.
He faps to her.
a boner that's outta control
Guys get boner around every girl.
Hard to say these days
The man's behavior towards that girl.
Spending nonsexual time with you.
A rock hard rager is a pretty good sign.
just ask him if he says yes then he does
Your confidence and honesty
The way he treats her and acts around her
Waits for her constantly
Not wearing a condom
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