Does my friends with benefits like me or should I cut it off?

[Anonymous]

I have been friends with benefits with a guy for 6-7months. At first it was just sex. But we started kissing and cuddling and being more intimate with each other. He’s told me things I feel like he wouldn’t tell anyone else. We both saw other people during our situation but we never stopped seeing each other. For Valentine’s Day he got me flowers and chocolate and I asked him why because we weren’t in an exclusive relationship. He said it’s out of respect of us having sex with each other. Is that really the reason? Or does he like me? When he comes over he’ll tell me about his day and ask me opinions on stuff. He always says that if I need anything or someone I can always confide and go to him. is he being friendly or could he like me?

[RespectfulGuy]

It sounded more like you caught feelings.

Yet again, friends with benefits can "mature" into exclusive if you sit down and talk.

Once again, do you want it exclusive? If yes, talk. Otherwise just continue enjoying the benefits and don't wonder too far.

[Kinkyhubby]

I never was ina friends with benefits Situation, but from the younger guys at my work, sounds like he may be starting to mature a little more. Do you guys hang out sometimes, or go to dinner? Or is it more kissing and cuddling before and after the sex? Maybe he did it just to keep you interested in him.

[Yannishka]

? What's stopping you from just having a talk? You've known him for at least 7 months. A heart to heart talk is best way to go about these things!

[Pinay_ako]

He likes you and he’s comfortable with you. Do you want it to be more?

[OlderAndWiser]

It is as obvious as the tits on a momma sow! Yes, this guy likes you. . . but you began as fwbb and he is probably afraid to make the first move, afraid you might say, “but we’re just friends with benefits!”

[OlderAndWiser]

“Or should I just cut it off?”

My daughter was dating a guy who had a wooden leg. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out and she had to break it off!

[spartan55]

Bottom line: if he wanted to be in a relationship with you, he would be.

[TracyF]

If he didn't like you he wouldn't even be around you. It sounds like you need relationship advice from me.

[boobliker]

A friends with benefits is just a buddy to have sex with and nothing more, so if the sex is good why break it off?

[Anonymous]

he is keeping you complacent so you can keep giving him sex. it's a common trick.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you are expecting more than what a friends with benefits can give you.

[LavLavLuv]

There’s something

[Iron_Man]

Those things never work

[bubbletealover5551]

yeah, i hate these kinda things.

[Iron_Man]

@bubbletealover5551 well you’re only 15 you shouldn’t be doing anything

[bubbletealover5551]

I know about that, but I don't even have these kinds of relationships, why would I in the first place? It's not like I said I do, you can't judge someone before getting to know them, you know.

[Iron_Man]

@bubbletealover5551 well you came on here and said you hate those and your only 15

[bubbletealover5551]

Yeah, cuz that's just my opinion and preference. There's nothing wrong with that. The only thing that's wrong is those relationships, and I'm not even doing anything relating to that.

[Iron_Man]

@bubbletealover5551 I don’t think it’s healthy. It’s not moral.

[bubbletealover5551]

Yeah, but I don't do that, and I never said that it's not healthy nor moral, I just said that you can't judge a book, or more so a person by it's cover, like when they're online, behind the screen, and you don't even know me personally. How do you know I'm telling the truth?

[Iron_Man]

@bubbletealover5551 who says you’re even a question asker who are you?

[bubbletealover5551]

Why do you even need to know?

[bubbletealover5551]

I can choose whether to answer it or not, so do you have to reason to know?

[KrakenAttackin]

He likes your potty, what else matters?

[In_Trance]

Seems like you failed to set boundaries

[Beth1212]

he like you