Am good friends with my friend with benefits but I am starting to get a boyfriend. Do I need to cut off my friends with benefits?

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I have had this friends with benefits for 3 years in totalt. We hang out like once every two weeks and the last few months we have been a bit more friendly and personal, and we know each other really well.

I'm starting to get a boyfriend (different guy), and I don't want to screw it up. However the thought of cutting off my friends with benefits seriously hurts.

Do you think my to-be-boyfriend would hate the fact that I'm friends with a guy I used to be friends with benefits with?
I also have the issue that none of my family knows about my friends with benefits, as I've been keeping him a secret.

Am good friends with my friend with benefits but I am starting to get a boyfriend. Do I need to cut off my friends with benefits?
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