If a guy has strong feelings for a girl, will he still have energy to notice another girl and go out of his way to flirt with the other girl?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

As many guys here say yes, then I just assume those guys are just players and don’t really care about the first girl that much.

[ohsheeT]

I could be married very very happily there's nothing in the world that's going to mess that up if I see a beautiful girl I'm going to look if I know that beautiful girl I'm going to say something that's a smart-ass that might sound like flirting but it's not there are times where I am and outgoing guy not too many but there are times lol and if something happens in front of me it was kind of funny I will be a smart-ass about it if it's a girl I will be even more of a smart-ass about it it doesn't mean that I'm being a smart-ass and thank God that the girls that I've dated actually know me and knows that I'm not trying to flirt or pick up with a girl and I thank God that they're not insecure like that because that was just wrong because that would mean I have to stop being myself and if I can't be myself then I'm not happy and then everything goes downhill from there because she's not going to be happy either and that's going to not be right so I would be the one that would take the pain because I wouldn't want her to go through that

[ohsheeT]

It's not so much the guys are players you have to understand guys have personalities they have egos that need to be stroked just who they are I'm one of those people I like to laugh I like to make people laugh and I'm one of the most loyal people you would meet but I also think every guy is an individual and you absolutely have to know that guy 100% before you could judge any guy

[pethouse]

Some people will do that!! I have a friend who is a guy and I don't know if he really catches feelings but Ik for a fact he will cheat given the circumstance it disgusts me but I also kinda understand where he comes from even tho I will not indulge in it myself. He says something about girls also cheating and how it’s better for both to cheat then just him getting cheated on. (In my opinion two wrongs don’t make a right but he won’t let his ego get hurt). I also have have another friend who has cheated on his girlfriend, i understand that she’s crazy and he was drunk that night but it doesn’t give an excuse, I also know a girl that cheats on her husband all day long. Now there marriage is just fucking awful!! She married him for the money and he married her for big boobs and no brain. (Which she is actually pretty stupid I’m not just saying that)

[Billlewis]

Absolutely. Keep in mind that guys are programmed to release their semen inside as many women as possible. That's why men are such jerks, because all we ever think about is how we're going to get our dicks inside another woman's vagina. Except for sweet little pigs like me, of course:)

[Asker]

Then I don’t think he really has genuine strong feelings for the first girl, if your mind is all about someone, you won’t have extra energy to actively notice another girl. Probably you just think the first girl is simply beautiful and release the semen inside her.

[EricSummer]

Depends on the type of feelings and relationship status. When I am in a relationship I do not make an effort to flirt with others as suggested in your question. I may still enjoy looking at a beautiful woman, but that's no effort and it is not flirting.

On the other hand, when I'm single it can happen that I feel strong attraction to a woman, but still flirt with another in parallel.

[Asker]

If you and the girl you really like, really in love with is in the same room with another girl. Will you actively seek out the other girl and flirt with her? Do you have extra energy to notice and flirt with another girl when you are very much in love with the first girl?

[EricSummer]

Oh well, when I was young and naive I might have stared at the other woman to enjoy her beauty. I would never have flirted, though. It does not come so naturally to me and I flirt only in dating.
Now I would usually hold myself back.
My girlfriend is very relaxed about these things, though. She will sometimes point out a beautiful woman to me in the streets or in the tram.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I own a lot of art work. Doesn't mean I don't go to the museum. Doesn't mean I want to steal what I see there.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Reply to the update. Since nearly everyone is saying yes, you're engaging in congnitive bias to make that support your already decided outcome that all men are players... OR... and here's a maybe... MAYBE every woman out there isn't insecure.

If we're out for a walk in the park and Chris Hemsworth runs by shirtless you're going to look. And I don't care. That doesn't mean you don't care about me or that you're a female player. It means you find visual appeal to what you're looking at. Being in a relationship doesn't suddenly rob you of your vision.

[summiter]

Some guys (players) might do that. Be careful so you won't be dissapointed.

[Iron_Man]

If a man has strong feelings about another woman, why would he want to do that?

[Asker]

If he has strong feelings for a girl, will he still flirt with another girl despite always thinking about the girl he already likes?

[Iron_Man]

How long has this been going on? You got to tell me more

[Asker]

No just asking if it’s a common thing.

[Iron_Man]

No?….

[Asker]

So if a guy is genuinely having strong feelings about a girl, he won’t have much energy to notice another girl?

[Anonymous]

It depends on what the other flirting is, and what his history is with this girl.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so he maybe would wait it out for that girl if she's showing signs of interest

[Asker]

Which girl?

[Opinion Owner]

The girl he has feelings for

[Anonymous]

Only if he is Confident enough.

A Shy Guy wouldn't and couldn't.

[Asker]

What does it have to do with confidence?

[Opinion Owner]

Well Shy Guys hardly ever go out of their way to Flirt with a Girl they like, Do They!

That's half the reason why most Shy Guys are Single.

A Shy Guy would never do that even if he has a Girlfriend, So it would obviously be a Confident Guy who would do that.

[Asker]

I think you misunderstood my question, my question isn’t about what type of guys will do it. My question is if someone really have strong feelings for someone, will they still have the energy to think about another person

[Opinion Owner]

And I said "Yes", But only a Confident Guy.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. If the first girl is ignoring him.

[Jamie05rhs]

Re: Update: No; you're absolutely incorrect.

[Anonymous]

hey if your not together why do you care

[In_Trance]

In some cases yes

[EVERYONEDIED]

yes for man

[Anonymous]

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