Why would my boyfriend ask me if I would change my surname to my spouse’s surname or keep mine?

[Anonymous]

This is for when I get married.

[Fireguy17]

A very logical question.
Some do, others do not esp for business reasons, if they have kids from someone else, or they just don't want to.
No biggie.

[Asker]

Either way, I said that it was a good question that I’ll need to put more thought into in the future. 

[ImalwaysrightOK]

He wants to know if you're a feminist or more traditional girl.

[Asker]

Either way, I said that it was a good question that I’ll need to put more thought into in the future. 👍🏽

[Surely]

Do as you please. But my wife hyphenated her last name and it can be a pain in the A$$ at times!

[Asker]

Either way, I said that it was a good question that I’ll need to put more thought into in the future. 

[MementoMori777]

Seems like it's something on his mind

[Asker]

Elaborate, please! 🫣

[MementoMori777]

It's something he's had in his mind for a while I'm sure

[Asker]

We haven’t been dating for long though.

[MementoMori777]

No one dates believing the relationship will end, actually if they have true feelings they think if their future and if you are in it, that's a sign he loves you or you have a special place in his heart

[Asker]

It’s our one month anniversary today lmfao!

[MementoMori777]

Congrats on the month anniversary I guess lol

[Asker]

Thanks lmao! Do guys really think about that shit during a one month relationship lol?

[Asker]

Also, I remember you lol.

[MementoMori777]

Guys fantasize a future with a woman they like, the question is will it last long enough to become a reality but no one jumps in not thinking it might not end in marriage and you must have a good memory, I wish I could say the same but all anons look the same to me, but behave and speak different lol

[Asker]

I don’t know if you remember me, but my name is Daphne.

[Asker]

I’m pretty sure he does see a future with me though. He already talks about the future; as in a year from now.

[MementoMori777]

I've seen like three so Ima assume you are one of them, either ways yes that's good, seems healthy for the relationship.

[Asker]

Lmao, true. But yeah, what do you think he had in mind?

[MementoMori777]

This is where I'm going to stop speaking because there's no possible way for me to know and you are basically putting me in sabotage territory where I can say something that's completely incorrect and I can ruin things, I prefer to stay quiet on something I don't know lol

[Asker]

Either way, you’re definitely not wrong here.

[MementoMori777]

I appreciate your realization to that lol

My best wishes on your relationship 💯🙌

[Asker]

Thank you so much! We both see it lasting. We’re doing very well and we’re both very real with each other from the beginning.

[MementoMori777]

Nice that's good 😁💯